{"id":11,"date":"2020-11-15T21:07:55","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T20:07:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/?p=11"},"modified":"2021-01-03T12:59:29","modified_gmt":"2021-01-03T11:59:29","slug":"co-je-to-pickup-pro-pribliznou-predstavu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/co-je-to-pickup-pro-pribliznou-predstavu\/","title":{"rendered":"Co je to pickup? &#8211; pro p\u0159ibli\u017enou p\u0159edstavu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Autor: Shaman<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Pickupe\u0159i se u\u010d\u00ed efektivn\u011b balit. Mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed to um\u00ed se \u017eenami tzv. &#8222;od p\u0159\u00edrody&#8220;, se tomu tak\u00e9 museli u\u010dit. V\u011bt\u0161inu krok\u016f si v\u0161ak neuv\u011bdomuj\u00ed a kdybyste se jich zeptali, jak se to nau\u010dili, vysm\u011bj\u00ed se v\u00e1m, proto\u017ee si ani nev\u0161imli, \u017ee se n\u011b\u010demu u\u010dili. Jednaj\u00ed automaticky, sv\u00fdm zab\u011bhnut\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Nev\u011bd\u00ed pro\u010d to nebo to tak a tak funguje a \u010dasto si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee maj\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch d\u00edky vzhledu nebo pen\u011bz\u016fm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Pickup je oproti tomu o c\u00edlen\u00e9m nab\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed dovednost\u00ed. Dok\u00e1\u017eeme p\u0159esn\u011b analyzovat co a jak, a u\u010d\u00edme se ty v\u011bci internalizovat (s\u017e\u00edt se s pravidly a principy).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pravidlo 3 sekund<\/strong><br>Toto pravidlo je mo\u017en\u00e1 nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm pravidlem. \u010c\u00edm d\u0159\u00edve holku oslov\u00ed\u0161, t\u00edm sn\u00e1ze bude interakce prob\u00edhat. D\u00e1v\u00e1\u0161 t\u00edm najevo svoji rozhodnost, odhodlanost a sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Nav\u00edc p\u0159edejde\u0161 vyvol\u00e1n\u00ed nervozity a na\u0161ept\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu, kter\u00fd -bude\u0161-li v\u00e1hat s osloven\u00edm- si zna\u010dn\u011b vym\u00fd\u0161let des\u00edtky katastrofick\u00fdch sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159\u016f a v\u00fdmluv pro\u010d to vzd\u00e1t.<br>Pravidlo t\u0159\u00ed sekund neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee mus\u00ed\u0161 oslovit p\u0159esn\u011b za t\u0159i sekundy. Znamen\u00e1, \u017ee mus\u00ed\u0161 oslovit jak nejrychleji je to mo\u017en\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>Nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdmluvy pro vyhnut\u00ed osloven\u00ed:<br>&#8222;3 sekundy u\u017e d\u00e1vno ub\u011bhly.&#8220;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8222;Nev\u00edm, co j\u00ed m\u00e1m \u0159\u00edct.&#8220;<br>&#8222;Nem\u00e1m state.&#8220;<br>Jsou jedinci, kte\u0159\u00ed s oblibou zapom\u00ednaj\u00ed i ty nejjednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed openery, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad klasick\u00e9 &#8222;Ahoj&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0158e\u010d t\u011bla<\/strong><br>Co se opravdu po\u010d\u00edt\u00e1, je prvn\u00ed dojem. Ten utv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed z velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti tvoje \u0159e\u010d t\u011bla! Z postoje, o\u010dn\u00edho kontaktu, z t\u00f3nu a kvality hlasu \u017eena snadno vy\u010dte koho m\u00e1 p\u0159ed sebou. Pevn\u00fd ale uvoln\u011bn\u00fd postoj, pomal\u00e9 rozv\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 pohyby, siln\u00fd o\u010dn\u00ed kontakt, p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b v\u00fdrazn\u00fd hlas &#8230; to v\u0161e na ni p\u016fsob\u00ed jako p\u00ed\u0161\u0165ala na kobru. \u017deny podv\u011bdom\u011b vyhled\u00e1vaj\u00ed alfa mu\u017ee. Je sice mo\u017en\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed alfa mu\u017ee napodobovat, ale to b\u00fdv\u00e1 velmi brzy prozrazeno. <strong>Nam\u00edsto p\u0159etv\u00e1\u0159ky se hr\u00e1\u010d zam\u011b\u0159uje na zdokonalov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9 osobnosti. U\u010d\u00ed se projevovat jako alfa mu\u017e, u\u010d\u00ed se b\u00fdt mu\u017eem.\u00a0<\/strong>Z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed t\u011bchto dovednost\u00ed vy\u017eaduje odhodl\u00e1n\u00ed a \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na vzhledu?<\/strong><br>Ano, ale ne tak jak si v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed mysl\u00ed. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je b\u00fdt kultivovan\u00fd (co\u017e znamen\u00e1 hlavn\u011b \u010distotn\u00fd, nem\u00edt chlupy tr\u010d\u00edc\u00ed z nosu a podobn\u00e1 zv\u011brstva). Fyzick\u00fd vzhled je mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed pro \u017eeny. Atraktivita \u017eeny je d\u00e1na z 80% jej\u00edm vzhledem. P\u0159ita\u017elivost mu\u017ee z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na vzhledu pouze z 20%. \u017deny si to v\u011bt\u0161inou nejsou schopn\u00e9 uv\u011bdomit. Soubor vlastnost\u00ed tvo\u0159\u00edc\u00edch atraktivitu mu\u017ee je mnohem komplexn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e povrchn\u00ed vzhled. Nev\u011bd\u00ed p\u0159esn\u011b, co je na dan\u00e9m mu\u017ei p\u0159itahuje, ale dokonale to rozpoznaj\u00ed podv\u011bdom\u011b. Pokud dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed sv\u00e9 pocity popsat, b\u00fdv\u00e1 ponejv\u00edce charizma t\u00edm, co se sna\u017e\u00ed vystihnout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Approach<\/strong>\u00a0(osloven\u00ed)<br>Oslovit je mo\u017en\u00e9 kdekoliv. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem se to provede. Pro ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u0159\u00edpad existuje optim\u00e1ln\u00ed postup. V\u0161echny jsou v\u0161ak v n\u011bkolika bodech spole\u010dn\u00e9:<br>1) \u017dena nesm\u00ed m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee je obkl\u00ed\u010dena (mus\u00ed m\u00edt v\u017edy mo\u017enost \u00faniku).<br>2) Velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd je \u00fasm\u011bv (ten toti\u017e nazna\u010duje, \u017ee p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed\u0161 v m\u00edru a nehodl\u00e1\u0161 ji ohro\u017eovat).<br>3) Nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed \u00fasp\u011b\u0161nosti p\u0159i oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed dos\u00e1hne\u0161, d\u00e1\u0161-li v\u017edy najevo svoj\u00ed vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed hodnotu (nepl\u00e9st s aroganc\u00ed!). Lid\u00e9 automaticky reaguj\u00ed pod\u0159\u00edzen\u011b a vn\u00edmav\u011b na projevy dominance (ignorovat v\u016fdce kmene se v prav\u011bku \u010dasto krut\u011b vymstilo\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak nap\u0159\u00edklad jak oslovit na ulici protijdouc\u00ed holku? U nep\u0159\u00edm\u00e9ho balen\u00ed mus\u00ed\u0161 m\u00edt p\u0159ipraven\u00fd opener &#8211; nejl\u00e9pe n\u011bco vlastn\u00edho. A\u017e bude asi tak na 5 metr\u016f od tebe, zastav\u00ed\u0161 se a za\u010dne\u0161 na n\u00ed mluvit. A te\u010f pozor! Nesm\u00ed\u0161 se za n\u00ed ot\u00e1\u010det (t\u00edm bys dal najevo pod\u0159\u00edzenost a \u017ee ti na na n\u00ed z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed &#8211; byl bys&nbsp;<em>needy<\/em>) a po\u0159\u00e1d mluv\u00ed\u0161, dokud se nezastav\u00ed. P\u016fjde-li d\u00e1l (st\u00e1v\u00e1 se hlavn\u011b kdy\u017e jdou moc rychle),&nbsp;<em>nech\u00e1\u0161 j\u00ed bejt<\/em>! Nikdy nepron\u00e1sledovat! P\u016fsob\u00ed to hrozn\u011b needy. Postoj mus\u00ed\u0161 m\u00edt dominantn\u00ed, uvoln\u011bn\u00fd a hlavn\u011b neud\u011blat ani jedin\u00fd krok zp\u011bt (je a\u017e s podivem, jak takov\u00e1 na prvn\u00ed pohled blbost okam\u017eit\u011b degraduje cel\u00fd approach a holka odch\u00e1z\u00ed). Je velk\u00e1 chyba za\u010d\u00edt v\u011btou &#8222;M\u016f\u017eu se t\u011b na n\u011bco zeptat?&#8220; Na to HB8 a v\u00fd\u0161 skoro nereaguj\u00ed (ov\u011b\u0159eno mnoha pokusy).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jako opener jsme \u010dasto pou\u017e\u00edvali velmi zn\u00e1m\u00fd opinion opener &#8222;Kdo l\u017ee v\u00edc? Mu\u017ei nebo \u017eeny?&#8220; Opener je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b uzemnit. Dod\u00e1\u0161 t\u0159eba, \u017ee jsi m\u011bl s kamar\u00e1dama diskusi na tohle t\u00e9ma. Neust\u00e1le je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed sledovat jej\u00ed \u0159e\u010d t\u011bla. Nato\u010dila se t\u011blem k tob\u011b? Potom se chytla. Teprve kdy\u017e se ona nato\u010d\u00ed k tob\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 se i ty nato\u010dit k n\u00ed. (Je za t\u00edm trochu slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed psychologie, ale v t\u00e9hle chv\u00edli n\u00e1s to nezaj\u00edm\u00e1.) Ne\u010dekej, \u017ee se sama rozpov\u00edd\u00e1. Nem\u00e1 k tomu sebemen\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvod. Na tob\u011b je minim\u00e1ln\u011b 90% konverzace. Udr\u017euj siln\u00fd o\u010dn\u00ed kontakt! Neust\u00e1l\u00e9 uh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed pohledem ji velmi rychle odrad\u00ed. Opener slou\u017e\u00ed jen k otev\u0159en\u00ed konverzace. Je zapot\u0159eb\u00ed co nejd\u0159\u00edve p\u0159ej\u00edt k n\u011b\u010demu jin\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Transition<\/strong>&nbsp;(p\u0159echod na dal\u0161\u00ed f\u00e1zi)<br>P\u0159echod z openeru b\u00fdv\u00e1 ze za\u010d\u00e1tku asi nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m. O \u010dem se bavit s n\u011bk\u00fdm koho vid\u00ed\u0161 prvn\u011b v \u017eivot\u011b? Pokud se zasekne\u0161, m\u016f\u017ee nastat trapn\u00e9 ticho (TT). \u010casto se pickuper zasekne pr\u00e1v\u011b ze strachu p\u0159ed TT. V podstat\u011b je jedno o \u010dem se d\u00e1l bavit, jen je nezbytn\u00e9, aby to nebylo nic negativn\u00edho. Nem\u00e1\u0161-li nic p\u0159ipraven\u00e9ho, je nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u0161imnout si t\u0159eba n\u011b\u010deho na n\u00ed a ud\u011blat k tomu pozn\u00e1mku &#8211; pokud mo\u017eno i vtipnou, aby j\u00ed to rozesm\u00e1lo (t\u00edm se uvoln\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ra a z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 dal\u0161\u00ed \u010das nav\u00edc). Aby toho nebylo m\u00e1lo, je je\u0161t\u011b jedna superd\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 v\u011bc, kterou mus\u00ed\u0161 p\u0159i oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed nezn\u00e1m\u00fdch holek d\u011blat &#8211; False Time Constraint.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>False Time Constraint<\/strong>&nbsp;(p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee jsi u\u017e na odchodu)<br>B\u011bhem konverzace nar\u016fst\u00e1 hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku v \u017een\u011b jeden negativn\u00ed pocit, kter\u00fd mus\u00edme odstranit. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed to jde velmi snadno, jenom se na to nesm\u00ed zapom\u00ednat. Je dobr\u00e9 hned po openeru d\u00e1t najevo, \u017ee u\u017e jsi na odchodu. Sta\u010d\u00ed \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee sp\u011bch\u00e1\u0161 nebo \u017ee na tebe n\u011bkdo \u010dek\u00e1 a t\u0159eba i nazna\u010dit t\u011blem, jako\u017ee odch\u00e1z\u00ed\u0161. T\u00edm z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 nav\u00edc n\u011bkolik minut \u010dasu, b\u011bhem kter\u00fdch m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 nep\u0159\u00edm\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem p\u0159edv\u00e9st sv\u00e9 kvality. Zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 je, \u017ee pot\u00e9, co se ti j\u00ed poda\u0159\u00ed zah\u00e1\u010dkovat a provede\u0161 dal\u0161\u00ed FTC, poslou\u017e\u00ed to naopak k vytvo\u0159en\u00ed pocitu, \u017ee t\u011b ztr\u00e1c\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Napsan\u00e9 je to pom\u011brn\u011b jednoduch\u00e9, mnohem t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed v praxi. Nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee prov\u00e9st dokonal\u00fd approach, ani\u017e by to mnoha pokusy nenatr\u00e9noval. Je to podobn\u00e9, jako u\u010dit se \u0159\u00eddit auto. Ze za\u010d\u00e1tku se tak\u00e9 ka\u017ed\u00fd mus\u00ed soust\u0159edit na \u0159ad\u00edc\u00ed p\u00e1ku, na spojku, brzdu a plyn a je\u0161t\u011b k tomu na silnici. Po des\u00edtk\u00e1ch a stovk\u00e1ch osloven\u00ed u\u017e se ale nebude\u0161 muset soust\u0159edit na detaily &#8211; v\u0161echno bude\u0161 d\u011blat bez p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, tak jako h\u00e1z\u00ed\u0161 rychlosti p\u0159i j\u00edzd\u011b autem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A to m\u00e1me teprve osloven\u00ed! Na cest\u011b k z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00e9 holky stoj\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b mnoho z\u00e1ludnost\u00ed. Kdo chce z\u00edskat a udr\u017eet si velmi atraktivn\u00ed \u017eenu (n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mu\u017ei daj\u00ed p\u0159ednost \u017eivotu o samot\u011b, ne\u017e by byli s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo je nep\u0159itahuje), mus\u00ed k tomu b\u00fdt kompetentn\u00ed (zp\u016fsobil\u00fd) a o to jde p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti pickuper\u016f &#8211; z\u00edskat dovednosti a neb\u00fdt odk\u00e1zan\u00fd na milost a nemilost kde komu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed je p\u0159irozen\u00fd ritu\u00e1l. Prob\u00edh\u00e1 podobn\u011b jako u zv\u00ed\u0159\u00e1tek :), jen akor\u00e1t u lid\u00ed je o mnoho slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed kv\u016fli spole\u010densk\u00fdm z\u00e1konitostem.<br>Mnoz\u00ed principy spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamiky nikdy nepochop\u00ed a rad\u011bji se spokoj\u00ed s t\u00edm, \u010demu \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed osud. Dal\u0161\u00ed se zase stanou mu\u010dedn\u00edky a budou se uk\u00e1jet sebel\u00edtost\u00ed a vym\u00fd\u0161let v\u0161emo\u017en\u00e9 d\u016fvody pro\u010d je holky necht\u011bj\u00ed. Jin\u00ed jsou zase zcela spokojen\u00ed s t\u00edm co maj\u00ed a pickup nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed (to je v po\u0159\u00e1dku &#8211; p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm do doby, ne\u017e od nich holka ute\u010de a budou si cht\u00edt naj\u00edt jinou &#8211; potom, kdy\u017e nev\u011bd\u00ed jak na to, maj\u00ed probl\u00e9m). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Existuje mnoho n\u00e1vod\u016f, jak se st\u00e1t \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fdm se \u017eenami (p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e v\u011bt\u0161ina je vytr\u017eena z kontextu). \u00dapln\u011b nejjednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed a nejp\u0159irozen\u011bj\u0161\u00ed postup je ten, \u017ee p\u016fjde\u0161 ven (m\u00edsto sezen\u00ed u po\u010d\u00edta\u010de nebo sledov\u00e1n\u00ed televize) a za\u010dne\u0161 intenzivn\u011b komunikovat s ostatn\u00edmi, experimentovat. Nev\u00fdhodou je, \u017ee bude\u0161 muset na v\u0161echno p\u0159ij\u00edt s\u00e1m. Bude\u0161-li vytrval\u00fd a nevzd\u00e1\u0161-li to, potom vymysl\u00ed\u0161 sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed strategie. Takov\u00e1 cesta je ov\u0161em hodn\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 &#8211; na \u010das i na odhodl\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159en\u00e9st se p\u0159es krut\u00e9 ne\u00fasp\u011bchy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u011bt\u0161inou se lid\u00e9 seznamuj\u00ed prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm okruhu p\u0159\u00e1tel a zn\u00e1m\u00fdch. Jen\u017ee co d\u011blat, kdy\u017e nechce\u0161 str\u00e1vit deset let vynal\u00e9z\u00e1n\u00edm strategi\u00ed balen\u00ed anebo \u010dek\u00e1n\u00edm na p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost v omezen\u00fdch spole\u010densk\u00fdch kruz\u00edch? &#8230; Seznamky? &#8230; Pro\u010d se omezovat na holky, kter\u00e9 nikdo nechce, kdy\u017e m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 hledat i mezi t\u011bmi nejatraktivn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nejv\u00fdhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je m\u00edt po ruce informace z druh\u00e9 ruky, v\u011bd\u011bt co a jak p\u0159edem a neomezovat se jenom na n\u00e1hodu. Dan\u00e9 informace jsou ale jen p\u0159ibli\u017enou mapou ter\u00e9nu. Ned\u00e1 se vyhnout ne\u00fasp\u011bchu a ani to nen\u00ed \u00fa\u010deln\u00e9. Za\u017e\u00edt ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1 osloven\u00ed, ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 pokusy p\u0159i balen\u00ed je nutn\u00e9, proto\u017ee jen d\u00edky tomu je mo\u017en\u00e9 se nau\u010dit ned\u011blat stejn\u00e9 chyby.<br><strong>Metody pickupu jsou jen u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fdmi pom\u016fckami p\u0159i z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Samy o sob\u011b nic ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mus\u00edm zklamat ka\u017ed\u00e9ho kdo si pomyslel, \u017ee se tady dozv\u00ed n\u011bjakou supertajnou informaci, n\u011bjak\u00fd trik jak balamutit \u017eeny. Nic takov\u00e9ho. Pickup sice na prvn\u00ed pohled vypad\u00e1 jako v\u0161el\u00e9k na z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bchu, ale nikdo se nepohne z m\u00edsta pokud pro to n\u011bco neud\u011bl\u00e1 (a naprost\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina skute\u010dn\u011b nic neud\u011bl\u00e1 &#8211; krom \u010dten\u00ed knih\/diskus\u00ed a hled\u00e1n\u00ed definitivn\u00ed odpov\u011bdi na ot\u00e1zku: &#8222;Jak na \u017eeny, ani\u017e bych musel hnout prstem?&#8220;).<br>Tak\u017ee jak se st\u00e1t \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fdm se \u017eenami? Jak se st\u00e1t mu\u017eem, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee v n\u011bkter\u00fdch vyvolat a\u017e tak silnou touhu, \u017ee jej pron\u00e1sleduj\u00ed? \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u016f\u017ee pomoci:<\/strong><br>1) zdokonalov\u00e1n\u00ed osobnosti a vnit\u0159n\u00ed hry<br>2) studium pravidel SD a metod pickupu a jejich okam\u017eit\u00e9 zkou\u0161en\u00ed v ter\u00e9nu<br>(k dispozici je velk\u00e9 mno\u017estv\u00ed knih a videosemin\u00e1\u0159\u016f &#8211; samoz\u0159ejm\u011b jen anglicky)<br>3) nalezen\u00ed wingman\u016f a spole\u010dn\u00e9 akce<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00fdt spole\u010densk\u00fd je naprosto p\u0159irozen\u00e1 v\u011bc. N\u011bkdo se dostal mezi takov\u00e9 okruhy zn\u00e1m\u00fdch, \u017ee se nau\u010dil v\u0161e pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 s\u00e1m od sebe, ale \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edce mu\u017e\u016f z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 bez spole\u010densk\u00fdch dovednost\u00ed &#8211; nev\u011bd\u00ed jak na to, proto\u017ee se mnohdy nev\u011bdomky od spole\u010dnosti izoluj\u00ed. Pickup m\u016f\u017ee uk\u00e1zat sm\u011br. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Chcete se dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce? P\u0159idejte se na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nekomer\u010dn\u00ed \u010desko-slovensk\u00e9 f\u00f3rum o pickupu a spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamice. Registrujte se zdarma na: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/\"><strong>https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Slovn\u00ed\u010dek pojm\u016f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>State \u2013 n\u00e1lada, jak se \u010dlov\u011bk c\u00edt\u00ed<\/li><li>Approach \u2013 samotn\u00e9 osloven\u00ed \u017eeny<\/li><li>Opener (otv\u00edr\u00e1k) \u2013 prvn\u00ed v\u011bta nebo v\u011bty, kter\u00e9 \u0159ekne mu\u017e nezn\u00e1m\u00e9 \u017een\u011b. T\u00edm ji oslov\u00ed.<\/li><li>Opinion opener \u2013 zept\u00e1n\u00ed se \u017eeny na n\u00e1zor <\/li><li>HB8 (hot babe) \u2013 p\u011bkn\u00e1 \u017eena, na stupnici vzhledu od 1 do 10 jej\u00ed vzhled hodnot\u00edme \u010d\u00edslem 8<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: Shaman Pickupe\u0159i se u\u010d\u00ed efektivn\u011b balit. Mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed to um\u00ed se \u017eenami tzv. &#8222;od p\u0159\u00edrody&#8220;, se tomu tak\u00e9 museli u\u010dit. V\u011bt\u0161inu krok\u016f si v\u0161ak neuv\u011bdomuj\u00ed a kdybyste se jich zeptali, jak se to nau\u010dili, vysm\u011bj\u00ed se v\u00e1m, proto\u017ee si ani nev\u0161imli, \u017ee se n\u011b\u010demu u\u010dili. Jednaj\u00ed automaticky, sv\u00fdm zab\u011bhnut\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Nev\u011bd\u00ed pro\u010d to nebo &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/co-je-to-pickup-pro-pribliznou-predstavu\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more &rarr;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8222;Co je to pickup? &#8211; pro p\u0159ibli\u017enou p\u0159edstavu&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":45,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":102,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions\/102"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}