{"id":13,"date":"2020-11-15T21:12:40","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T20:12:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/?p=13"},"modified":"2021-01-03T13:11:08","modified_gmt":"2021-01-03T12:11:08","slug":"faze-pickupu-pro-novacky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/faze-pickupu-pro-novacky\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00e1ze pickupu (pro nov\u00e1\u010dky)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Autor: Z-man<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Nejd\u0159\u00edve je nutn\u00e9 st\u00e1t se atraktivn\u00edm. Jak toho dos\u00e1hnout?<br>Ka\u017ed\u00fd tou\u017e\u00edme po n\u011bkom, kdo je co mo\u017en\u00e1 nejlep\u0161\u00ed, nejl\u00e9pe aby jej\u00ed hodnota p\u0159evy\u0161ovala na\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u010f pohled HB, v\u0161ude se j\u00ed nab\u00edzej\u00ed kluci, m\u016f\u017ee si vyb\u00edrat, jak dos\u00e1hnout toho, aby si vybrala zrovna n\u00e1s? Jedin\u00e1 mo\u017enost je, \u017ee budeme m\u00edt natolik vysokou hodnotu, \u017ee ona bude m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee jsme lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e ti ostatn\u00ed, a nejl\u00e9pe \u017ee m\u00e1me i vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed hodnotu, ne\u017e ona sama(pak bude k n\u00e1m vzhl\u00ed\u017eet jako k bohu :D). Z\u00e1kladn\u00edm p\u0159edpokladem je m\u00edt alfa mindset (sebev\u011bdom\u00fd, c\u00edlev\u011bdom\u00fd, v \u017eivot\u011b \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd, obklopen \u017eenami, vtipn\u00fd&#8230;), ale m\u00e1lokdo z n\u00e1s m\u00e1 tento mindset natolik vybudovanej, \u017ee naprosto p\u0159irozen\u011b jedn\u00e1 tak, jak je to ide\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Proto se v\u011bnujeme pickupu, kterej n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1stroje-techniky, d\u00edky kter\u00fdm dok\u00e1\u017eeme efektivn\u011b demonstrovat na\u0161i hodnotu a alfa postoj (v ide\u00e1ln\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b jsou tyto techniky zcela v souh\u0159e s mindsetem a jsou naprosto p\u0159irozen\u00e9). N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u201etechniky\u201c, kter\u00fdmi prezentujeme vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed hodnotu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Negy<\/strong>-d\u00e1vaj\u00ed najevo, \u017ee dan\u00e1 HB pro n\u00e1s nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed hodnotu = st\u00e1v\u00e1me se pro HB \u201enedosa\u017eiteln\u00ed\u201c a co je nedosa\u017eiteln\u00fd, m\u00e1 vysokou hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C&amp;F<\/strong>-d\u00e1v\u00e1me najevo sv\u016fj nadhled, sebed\u016fv\u011bru, smysl pro humor, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt stejn\u00fd \u00fa\u010del jako negy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00fdt nedostupn\u00fd\/vyt\u00ed\u017een\u00fd<\/strong>&#8211; alfa mu\u017ei maj\u00ed st\u00e1le co d\u011blat a jejich pr\u00e1ce je velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1, proto n\u011bkdy nemaj\u00ed \u010das zdvihnout telefon, \u010di chodit ven, kdykoliv si HB \u0159ekne..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00fdt tajemn\u00fd<\/strong>&#8211; co je pro n\u00e1s tajemn\u00e9, tak si v mysli dom\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme a zveli\u010dujeme a stejn\u011b tak HB bude si n\u00e1s a na\u0161e \u010diny zveli\u010dovat. Z jin\u00e9ho pohledu, co n\u00e1m je detailn\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e9 (nem\u00e1 pro n\u00e1s \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 drama, nap\u011bt\u00ed, emoce), n\u00e1s p\u0159estane zaj\u00edmat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Oble\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>&#8211; pokud jsme l\u00e9pe oble\u010deni ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed, ostatn\u00ed n\u00e1s podv\u011bdom\u011b vn\u00edmaj\u00ed jako \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed schopnosti<\/strong>&#8211; magick\u00e9 triky, cold reading, storyteling a dal\u0161\u00ed schopnosti pro pobaven\u00ed ostatn\u00edch<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Atd.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Pozn<\/em>. V\u0161echny v\u00fd\u0161e uveden\u00e9 techniky jsou na prvn\u00ed pohled z\u00e1visl\u00e9 pouze na rozumu, ale k jejich kvalitn\u00edmu pod\u00e1n\u00ed je nutn\u00e1 i kvalitn\u00ed innergame (alfa mindset), jinak vypadaj\u00ed nep\u0159irozen\u011b a u\u017e nevyjad\u0159uj\u00ed vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u010f jsme do\u0161li do f\u00e1ze, kdy ji\u017e HB v\u00ed, \u017ee m\u00e1me vysokou hodnotu a je k n\u00e1m p\u0159itahov\u00e1na (mysl\u00ed si \u017ee jsme to nejlep\u0161\u00ed co by mohla m\u00edt).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na\u0161i vysokou hodnotu je pot\u0159eba st\u00e1le udr\u017eovat (pokud m\u00e1me alfa mindset nen\u00ed s t\u00edm probl\u00e9m) ale osobn\u011b si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je vhodn\u00e9 omezit C&amp;F ve stylu neg\u016f a d\u011blat to pouze kdy\u017e se k tomu naskytne extra vhodn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost (nap\u0159. p\u0159i odp\u00e1lkov\u00e1n\u00ed ST :))<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>A te\u010f se zam\u011b\u0159it na budov\u00e1n\u00ed tzv. raportu. Kdy\u017e se HB bude v na\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti c\u00edtit naprosto skv\u011ble, bude se bavit, tak ji\u017e nebude probl\u00e9m interakci d\u00e1l rozv\u00edjet(k sexu, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b LTR).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Touto my\u0161lenkou m\u011b inspiroval Zan, \u017ee jeho HBs cht\u011bj\u00ed, proto\u017ee se v jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnosti c\u00edt\u00ed skv\u011ble a on chce je, proto\u017ee zas on se c\u00edt\u00ed skv\u011ble v jejich p\u0159\u00edtomnosti. Tohle by n\u011bkoho mohlo sv\u00e1d\u011bt k tomu, b\u00fdt nice guy a chovat se jako sluha HB, ale pak ztrat\u00edme vlastn\u00ed hodnotu a n\u00e1sleduje game-over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pro p\u0159edstavu, kdy\u017e v\u00e1m va\u0161e UG kamar\u00e1dka, kter\u00e1 V\u00e1s chce uhnat \u0159ekne, \u017ee m\u00e1te sexy ko\u0161ili, je to daleko m\u00ed\u0148 hodnotn\u00fd, ne\u017e kdy\u017e to \u0159ekne HB10. Pokud to \u0159ekne HB10 vyvol\u00e1 to v n\u00e1s skv\u011bl\u00fd pocit, a k tomu skv\u011bl\u00e9mu pocitu se budeme cht\u00edt vr\u00e1tit a na\u0161\u00ed touho po HB10 to je\u0161t\u011b zes\u00edl\u00ed, naopak touha po UG se dostane je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edce m\u00ednusu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee, kdy\u017e HB je k n\u00e1m p\u0159itahov\u00e1na, tak mus\u00ed nastoupit raport f\u00e1ze, aby se interakce mohla d\u00e1l rozv\u00edjet. Pokud nenastoup\u00ed, jej\u00ed z\u00e1jem \u010dasem opadne (obecn\u011b, kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo o n\u00e1s nem\u00e1 z\u00e1jem taky ztrat\u00edme z\u00e1jem)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u010f k samotn\u00e9 raport f\u00e1zi. Pro m\u011b je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed uv\u011bdomit si, je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ed setk\u00e1n\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1m tu osobu r\u00e1d, a \u017ee se t\u011b\u0161\u00edm a\u017e s n\u00ed budu tr\u00e1vit \u010das, s t\u00edmto postojem souvis\u00ed i dobr\u00e1 n\u00e1lada, kter\u00e1 se u\u017e dostav\u00ed sama. Rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed na \u0161kodu nastudovat n\u011bjak\u00fd techniky z NLP, jak vytv\u00e1\u0159et a prohlubovat raport, ale je to zas hlavn\u011b z\u00e1visl\u00e9 na rozpolo\u017een\u00ed mysli, kdy\u017e je \u201espr\u00e1vn\u00e9\u201c, nen\u00ed ani tak nutn\u00e9 d\u011blat proto n\u011bjak\u00fd zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed techniky. Kdy\u017e HB s v\u00e1mi za\u017eije raport (bude j\u00ed s v\u00e1mi v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u011b dob\u0159e, pocit souzn\u011bn\u00ed, porozum\u011bn\u00ed) bude cht\u00edt s v\u00e1mi sd\u00edlet v\u0161e co p\u016fjde;)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Pozn.<\/em> osobn\u011b m\u00e1m je\u0161t\u011b trvale p\u0159ipraven\u00fd pro tuto f\u00e1zi zaj\u00edmav\u00fd ot\u00e1zky, kter\u00fd vyt\u00e1hnu, kdy\u017e konverzace za\u010dne v\u00e1znout, a p\u00e1r takov\u00fdch C&amp;F rutin, kter\u00fd pou\u017eiju, kdy\u017e se naskytne vhodn\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost a je\u0161t\u011b m\u00e1m taky sv\u00fd obl\u00edben\u00fd flirtovac\u00ed t\u00e9mata, aby to m\u011blo taky trochu n\u00e1boj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A jak je pops\u00e1no v MM, kdy\u017e je attraction a raport, pak u\u017e nen\u00ed probl\u00e9m clousnout (sex, LTR).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cht\u011bl jsem si to s\u00e1m trochu ujasnit, a pak m\u011b napadlo, \u017ee bych z toho mohl ud\u011blat \u010dl\u00e1nek, tak jsem to p\u0159epracoval do podoby tohohle \u010dl\u00e1nku. Douf\u00e1m, \u017ee to n\u011bkomu pom\u016f\u017ee, s\u00e1m jsem v\u011bt\u0161inu v\u011bc\u00ed zkou\u0161el, i kdy\u017e v\u0161echno to skloubit tak, jak popisuju se mi je\u0161t\u011b nepoda\u0159ilo a zd\u016fraz\u0148uju, \u017ee je to jen m\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00e9to problematiky, a budu \u0161tasten, kdy\u017e se n\u011bkdo vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed co se mu nel\u00edb\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <strong>Chcete se dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce? P\u0159idejte se na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nekomer\u010dn\u00ed \u010desko-slovensk\u00e9 f\u00f3rum o pickupu a spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamice. Registrujte se zdarma na: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/\"><strong>https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Slovn\u00ed\u010dek pojm\u016f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>HB (hot babe) \u2013 kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena<\/li><li>Mindset \u2013 My\u0161len\u00ed<\/li><li>Target \u2013 c\u00edl, \u017eena, kterou chceme zaujmout, sbalit<\/li><li>Negy \u2013 vtipn\u00e1 hl\u00e1\u0161ka, kterou si d\u011bl\u00e1me z\u00a0targetu legraci<\/li><li>C&amp;F \u2013 Cocky and funny\/ drz\u00fd a vtipn\u00fd<\/li><li>Rapport \u2013 stav d\u016fv\u011bry, kdy\u017e u targetu z\u00edsk\u00e1me rapport, nejsme pro ni u\u017e jen ciz\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, ale n\u011bkdo, s\u00a0k\u00fdm se c\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e, m\u00e1 k\u00a0n\u011bmu vybudovanou alespo\u0148 n\u011bjakou d\u016fv\u011bru<\/li><li>UG \u2013 ugly girl, nep\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e1 \u017eena<\/li><li>NLP \u2013 neuro-lingvistick\u00e9 programov\u00e1n\u00ed, pro pochopen\u00ed pojmu doporu\u010duju vygooglit<\/li><li>MM \u2013 Mystery method, metoda celosv\u011btov\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e9ho pickupera z\u00a0p\u0159ezd\u00edvkou Mystery<\/li><li>LTR \u2013 long-term relationship, dlouhodob\u00fd partnersk\u00fd vztah<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: Z-man Nejd\u0159\u00edve je nutn\u00e9 st\u00e1t se atraktivn\u00edm. Jak toho dos\u00e1hnout?Ka\u017ed\u00fd tou\u017e\u00edme po n\u011bkom, kdo je co mo\u017en\u00e1 nejlep\u0161\u00ed, nejl\u00e9pe aby jej\u00ed hodnota p\u0159evy\u0161ovala na\u0161\u00ed. Te\u010f pohled HB, v\u0161ude se j\u00ed nab\u00edzej\u00ed kluci, m\u016f\u017ee si vyb\u00edrat, jak dos\u00e1hnout toho, aby si vybrala zrovna n\u00e1s? Jedin\u00e1 mo\u017enost je, \u017ee budeme m\u00edt natolik vysokou hodnotu, \u017ee ona &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/faze-pickupu-pro-novacky\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more &rarr;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8222;F\u00e1ze pickupu (pro nov\u00e1\u010dky)&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":44,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":103,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13\/revisions\/103"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}