{"id":23,"date":"2020-11-15T21:30:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T20:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/?p=23"},"modified":"2021-01-03T15:02:15","modified_gmt":"2021-01-03T14:02:15","slug":"vybudujes-skvelu-attraction-a-ajtak-sa-to-dojebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/vybudujes-skvelu-attraction-a-ajtak-sa-to-dojebe\/","title":{"rendered":"Vybuduje\u0161 skvel\u00fa attraction a aj tak sa to dojebe?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Autor: M i \u0161 o <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Nasleduj\u00face uvedomenie mi pomohlo vyrie\u0161i\u0165 jeden m\u00f4j sticking point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tento post je pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed sa pova\u017euj\u00fa za sol\u00eddnych v budovan\u00ed pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivosti a netu\u0161ia ,\u017ee pre\u010do diev\u010da napriek dobrej game z ich strany, po ur\u010ditej dobe ztrat\u00ed z\u00e1ujem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V minulosti som si predstavoval \u201c\u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch\u201c elitn\u00fdch PU asi takto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elitn\u00fd PU Pribehne k HB ako na lietaj\u00facom koberci povie zop\u00e1r zlat\u00fdch sl\u00f3v, HB sa neuverite\u013ene v jeho pr\u00edtomnosti bav\u00ed, sr\u0161\u00ed smiechom a potom si tento t\u00fdpek odvedie HB domov, ak mu samozrejme neza\u010dne faj\u010di\u0165 kokot hne\u010f tam a vtedy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samozrejme, \u017ee to vyzer\u00e1 \u00fapln\u00e9 epicky: po\u010das pickupu nenast\u00e1vaj\u00fa \u017eiadne komplik\u00e1cie, pickuperovi \u0161\u013eahaj\u00fa z riti plamene, je vyzbrojen\u00fd \u0161armom Jamesa Bonda, charizmou Johnyho Deppa a v pozad\u00ed po\u010du\u0165 hudbu Hansa Zimmera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zamyslel som sa nad svojimi \u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdm pickupom, nad svojimi ONS, nad day\u2019s 2 ktor\u00e9 som premenil na sex a uvedomil som si ,\u017ee to skoro nikdy neprebiehalo nejak zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 exkluz\u00edvne. Nebol som v t\u00fdch interakci\u00e1ch nejak extra vtipn\u00fd alebo dominantn\u00fd alebo nereakt\u00edvny sk\u00f4r to bol tak\u00fd vyv\u00e1\u017eeny mix toho v\u0161etk\u00e9ho. No big deal. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou to bolo rie\u0161en\u00e9 ve\u013emi jednoduchou a priamo\u010diarou cestou \u2013 Oslov\u00ed\u0161 diev\u010da, povie\u0161 nie\u010do vtipne, nespr\u00e1va\u0161 sa ako kokot, eskaluje\u0161 inteligentn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, vedie\u0161, izoluje\u0161, pull, sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Otvoril mi o\u010di RSD Hot Seat minul\u00fd rok v Budap\u00e4sti. Zostal som v \u0161oku. Na ich infield footage (nahr\u00e1vke z po\u013ea) som videl, \u017ee Tyler a Julien \u201eepick\u00fd gamuju\u201c len prv\u00fdch p\u00e1r sek\u00fand a\u017e min\u00fat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tyler vo videu oslovil na ulici HB9. Gamoval ju p\u00e1r min\u00fat na ulici a potom ju pullol do baru. V bare sa asi 50 min\u00fat v podstate iba rozpr\u00e1vali, fluff talk, o be\u017en\u00fdch veciach. Nevyzeralo to tak \u017ee gamuje, spr\u00e1val sa norm\u00e1lne. Dokonca som ani nevidel \u017ee by sa diev\u010da aspo\u0148 raz zasmialo. Potom ju s d\u00e1vkou perzistencie pullol k sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V tej dobe to pre m\u0148a predstavovalo mindfuck, lebo som zistil \u017ee outer game kostra mojej hry je zl\u00e1 \u2013 po\u010das mojich interakcii som sa sna\u017eil demon\u0161trova\u0165 hodnotu od approachu , skoro a\u017e po FC a t\u00fdm som si vlastne skoro v\u017edy kopal hrob. Tak\u017ee ke\u010f\u017ee sa pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165 vytv\u00e1ra len prv\u00fdch p\u00e1r min\u00fat, zvy\u0161ok \u010dasu vibuj\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u0161te raz &#8211; cel\u00e1 t\u00e1 DHV f\u00e1za (siln\u00fd o\u010dn\u00fd kontakt, dominantn\u00fd\/raport l\u00e1maj\u00faci t\u00f3n, KINO) trvala iba relativne nieko\u013eko sek\u00fand a\u017e min\u00fat od za\u010diatku ich spolo\u010dnej interakcie \u2013 approachu. Povezme 5 sekund a\u017e<br>20 min\u00fat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zvy\u0161n\u00fa hodinu a\u017e hodinu a p\u00f3l do pullu (extrakcie diev\u010da\u0165a z klubu domov) sa VIBUJE a.k.a spozn\u00e1vanie, fluff&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Traduje sa \u017ee be\u017en\u00fd ONS od Openu k Pullu trv\u00e1 45 -90 min\u00fat( \u00e1no existuj\u00fa zanedbateln\u00e9 z\u00e1chodove 5 minutov\u00e9 laye ale aj 3 hodinov\u00e9 klubov\u00e9 eposy). Ide o to \u017ee nie je realisticky mo\u017en\u00e9 aby si bol cel\u00fd tych 90 min\u00fat ako DHV lokomot\u00edva pln\u00e1 statu. Vtedy je spr\u00e1vny \u010das na to aby si odd\u00edchol a za\u010dal relaxova\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V podstate je jedinou \u00falohou chlapa pri vibovan\u00ed to ,aby vytvoril v \u017eene pocit pohodlia a komfortu. Nie\u010do tak\u00e9 nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 vytvori\u0165 ke\u010f neust\u00e1le DHV gamuje\u0161. Ke\u010f neust\u00e1le gamuje\u0161 vytvor\u00ed\u0161 atmosf\u00e9ru ned\u00f4very, preto\u017ee nie\u010do potl\u00e1\u010da\u0161 a je teda jasn\u00e9 \u017ee nie\u010do skr\u00fdva\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bude\u0161 ma\u0165 needy vibe lebo sa prive\u013emi sna\u017e\u00ed\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ci\u017ee v tejto f\u00e1ze pickuper schov\u00e1 svoje kolty to p\u00fazdra, preru\u0161\u00ed svoje tane\u010dn\u00e9 \u010d\u00edslo, uhas\u00ed oh\u0148ostroje a vypne sveteln\u00e9 a zvukov\u00e9 efekty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vznikne ve\u013ek\u00fd risk, pokia\u013e to neurob\u00ed. \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Po istom \u010dase si diev\u010da uvedom\u00ed \u017ee len predstiera to \u017ee m\u00e1 HV \u2013 alfa ktor\u00e1 sa neust\u00e1le sna\u017e\u00ed da\u0165 najavo \u017ee je alfa nie je alfa. Ke\u010f sa nad t\u00fdm zamysl\u00ed\u0161- \u010dlovek ktor\u00fd potrebuje neust\u00e1le dokazova\u0165 \u017ee je naozaj dobr\u00fd chlap d\u00e1va najavo opak. Jedin\u00fd naozajstn\u00fdm d\u00f4vodom pre\u010do by nie\u010do tak\u00e9 robil je to \u017ee je neist\u00fd \u2013 neist\u00fd v tom \u010di si to diev\u010da zasl\u00fa\u017ei a neist\u00fd v tom k\u00fdm je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. Po hook pointe ma nasledova\u0165 zmena z podielu konverz\u00e1cie 90:10 na 50:50. Ke\u010f\u017ee st\u00e1le gamuje\u0161 ned\u00e1va\u0161 jej pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 na to aby aj ona investovala do va\u0161ej spolo\u010dnej interakcie. K\u00f4li tomu bude men\u0161ia pravdepodobnos\u0165 ,\u017ee sa s tebou vysp\u00ed lebo neinvestuje. A ke\u010f\u017ee neinvestuje tak \u0165a nebude vn\u00edma\u0165 ako \u010dloveka ale ako z\u00e1bavn\u00fa em\u00f3ciu alebo atrakciu klubu. Bav\u00ed sa pri tebe ale nie je to norm\u00e1lna ,vyrovnan\u00e1 interakcia. Tak\u017ee na to aby si s \u0148ou mal sex mus\u00ed aj ona odvies\u0165 ist\u00fd kus pr\u00e1ce (chasing).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inak povedan\u00e9 &#8211; mus\u00ed \u0165a nah\u00e1na\u0165 bro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V podstate sa nech\u00e1\u0161 \u0148ou gamova\u0165, t\u00fdm ju don\u00fati\u0161 aby sa ti kvalifikovala, aby investovala, aby \u0165a gamovala \u2013 po tom bude ma\u0165 d\u00f4vody k tomu aby s tebou mohla jeba\u0165 (tak si to v hlave zracionalizuje) lebo na sc\u00e9ne sa zrazu objavuje aj jej ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Pokia\u013e nem\u00e1 \u017eiadny d\u00f4vod na to aby \u0165a nah\u00e1\u0148ala, pre\u010do by \u0165a mala \u0161uka\u0165?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mal by tam by\u0165 ten bod v interakcii ke\u010f za\u010dne nah\u00e1\u0148a\u0165 tvoju valid\u00e1ciu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sem tam nastan\u00fa interakcie ked sa situacia skomplikuje a vtedy musi\u0161 rie\u0161i\u0161 kopec prek\u00e1\u017eok &#8211; skamaradit sa s jej kamaratkami, zhodi\u0165 \u201eamoga\u201c . Alebo ke\u010f \u0165a neust\u00e1le 30 min\u00fat shittestuje a zdia\u013eky to vyzer\u00e1 ako s\u00faboj titanov a nakoniec povol\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pr\u00e1ve z tak\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitkov vznikaj\u00fa epick\u00e9 field-reporty a z\u00e1bavn\u00e9 historky ktor\u00e9 sa dobre po\u010d\u00favaj\u00fa ke\u010f ich rozpr\u00e1va\u0161 svojim zn\u00e1mim a priate\u013eom ale tr\u00fafam si tvrdi\u0165 \u017ee 70-80 % ke\u010f mi z\u00e1sun vy\u0161iel to bolo :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Oslovenie<br>2. Gamovanie<br>3. Vibing<br>4. Fuck<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uvedomil som si to \u017ee ke\u010f sa mi v game za\u010dalo dari\u0165 za\u010dal svoju game \u010doraz viac a viac zjednodu\u0161ova\u0165. \u010coraz viac som usmer\u0148oval interakcii k veci bez zbyto\u010dn\u00e9ho pozl\u00e1tka. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Chcete se dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce? P\u0159idejte se na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nekomer\u010dn\u00ed \u010desko-slovensk\u00e9 f\u00f3rum o pickupu a spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamice. Registrujte se zdarma na: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/\"><strong>https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Slovn\u00ed\u010dek pojm\u016f:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>PU \u2013 pickuper; mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 pickupem <\/li><li>Target \u2013 c\u00edl, \u017eena, kterou chceme zaujmout, sbalit<\/li><li>HB (hot babe) \u2013 kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena<\/li><li>ONS (one night stand) \u2013 sex na jednu noc <\/li><li>Day2 \u2013 prvn\u00ed rande; tedy druh\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s targetem po tom, co jsme se s\u00a0n\u00ed sezn\u00e1mili<\/li><li>Eskalace \u2013 sm\u011brov\u00e1n\u00ed konverzace a dotek\u016f k\u00a0l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di sexu, budov\u00e1n\u00ed nap\u011bt\u00ed v\u00a0konverzaci<\/li><li>Izolace \u2013 p\u0159em\u00edst\u00edme se s\u00a0targetem na m\u00edsto, kde budeme sami, nap\u0159. od jej\u00edch kamar\u00e1d\u016f, m\u016f\u017eeme zde neru\u0161en\u011b pokra\u010dovat ve sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/li><li>RSD (real social dynamics) \u2013 jedna z\u00a0mezin\u00e1rodn\u00edch \u0161kol pickupu<\/li><li>Tyler, Julien \u2013 p\u0159ezd\u00edvky sv\u011btov\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00fdch pickuper\u016f <\/li><li>HB9 (hot babe) \u2013 kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 \u017eena, na stupnici vzhledu od 1 do 10 jej\u00ed vzhled hodnot\u00edme \u010d\u00edslem 9<\/li><li>Fluff talk \u2013 konverzace o b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch t\u00e9matech<\/li><li>Pullov\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 p\u0159esunut\u00ed se s\u00a0targetem na m\u00edsto, kde prob\u011bhne sex<\/li><li>DHV (demonstration of higher value) \u2013 n\u011bco, pro\u010d m\u00e1me vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed hodnotu ne\u017e jin\u00ed mu\u017ei; nap\u0159. m\u00e1me zaj\u00edmavou pr\u00e1ci, skv\u011bl\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek, \u0159adu p\u0159\u00e1tel, n\u011bco zaj\u00edmav\u00e9ho um\u00edme, atd.; DHV neukazujeme p\u0159\u00edmo, nemachrujeme, m\u011bli by vyplynout p\u0159irozen\u011b z\u00a0konverzace; DHV zaujmou n\u00e1\u0161 target<\/li><li>KINO \u2013 zkratka kino escalation, f\u00e1ze sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, kdy budujeme p\u0159ita\u017elivost vz\u00e1jemn\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdmi doteky s\u00a0targetem; pojem se pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 tak\u00e9 jako synonymum dotek\u016f<\/li><li>Approach \u2013 samotn\u00e9 osloven\u00ed \u017eeny<\/li><li>Vibe \u2013 \u201edobr\u00e1 energie\u201c, kdy\u017e s\u00a0targetem vybudujeme vibe, oba se c\u00edt\u00edme spolu p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b, je mezi n\u00e1mi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1 energie<\/li><li>Needy \u2013 pokud mu\u017e vypad\u00e1 needy, znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, \u017ee target chce a je schopen kv\u016fli tomu se i pon\u00ed\u017eit, ud\u011blat pro ni mnohem v\u00edce ne\u017e ona pro n\u011bj, atd., je to chyba a vede k\u00a0ne\u00fasp\u011bchu approache<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: M i \u0161 o Nasleduj\u00face uvedomenie mi pomohlo vyrie\u0161i\u0165 jeden m\u00f4j sticking point. Tento post je pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed sa pova\u017euj\u00fa za sol\u00eddnych v budovan\u00ed pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivosti a netu\u0161ia ,\u017ee pre\u010do diev\u010da napriek dobrej game z ich strany, po ur\u010ditej dobe ztrat\u00ed z\u00e1ujem. V minulosti som si predstavoval \u201c\u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch\u201c elitn\u00fdch PU asi takto: Elitn\u00fd &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/vybudujes-skvelu-attraction-a-ajtak-sa-to-dojebe\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read more &rarr;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8222;Vybuduje\u0161 skvel\u00fa attraction a aj tak sa to dojebe?&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":38,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":105,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23\/revisions\/105"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}