{"id":26,"date":"2020-11-15T21:37:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T20:37:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/?p=26"},"modified":"2020-11-27T12:39:34","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T11:39:34","slug":"rande-od-a-do-z","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/rande-od-a-do-z\/","title":{"rendered":"Rande od A do Z"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Autor: Stoudy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\n\nNa podn\u011bt n\u011bkter\u00fdch brn\u011bnsk\u00fdch bali\u010d\u016f jsem se rozhodl sepsat n\u011bkolik \u0159\u00e1dek o \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9m rand\u011bn\u00ed. U\u017e jsem o tom kdysi p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161el i na Brainstormingu, tak se to nyn\u00ed pokus\u00edm dostat na pap\u00edr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pro\u010d zrovna daty? M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee je to nejz\u00e1bavn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st balen\u00ed v\u016fbec a nav\u00edc se v nich pova\u017euju za celkem pokro\u010dil\u00e9ho. V dob\u011b, kdy nem\u00e1m LTR nebo jinou formu vztahu s holkou a jsem &#8222;na lovu&#8220;, tak v\u011bt\u0161inou m\u00edv\u00e1m ka\u017ed\u00fd t\u00fdden 1-2 daty, n\u011bkdy i v\u00edc. Proto si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1m k t\u00e9matu co \u0159\u00edct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asi nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u011bc nap\u00ed\u0161u ji\u017e v tuto chv\u00edli:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Neberte date jako nutn\u00e9 zlo p\u0159ed sexem, ale jako lahodn\u00fd p\u0159edkrm p\u0159ed hlavn\u00edm j\u00eddlem. Zn\u00ed to sice trivi\u00e1ln\u011b, ale m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee tohle je probl\u00e9m v\u011bt\u0161iny u\u017eivatel\u016f f\u00f3ra, kte\u0159\u00ed vid\u00ed date jako p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekovou dr\u00e1hu, na kter\u00e9 mus\u00ed splnit v\u0161echny \u00fakoly, aby mohli dob\u011bhnout do c\u00edle. A stresuj\u00ed se, \u017ee se jim to nepoda\u0159\u00ed. Oto\u010dte to, c\u00edl jste vy, nechte na opi\u010d\u00ed dr\u00e1ze pob\u00edhat tu sle\u010dnu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u010c\u00e1st prvn\u00ed : DOMLUVA DATU<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159\u00edjde mi, \u017ee se na f\u00f3ru p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1 a\u017e zbyte\u010dn\u011b velk\u00fd v\u00fdznam tomu, zda vol\u00e1me nebo p\u00ed\u0161eme sms. P\u0159itom tenhle fakt nen\u00ed zase tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd. D\u011blejte to, co v\u00e1m v\u00edc funguje nebo na co m\u00e1te zrovna chu\u0165. J\u00e1 nap\u0159\u00edklad velmi \u010dasto beru p\u0159i rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed jako krit\u00e9rium povahu doty\u010dn\u00e9 holky. \u010clov\u011bk \u010dasem vyc\u00edt\u00ed, zda sle\u010dna pat\u0159\u00ed mezi ty, kter\u00fdm budou vlhnout kalhotky, kdy\u017e usly\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 uvoln\u011bn\u00fd, ale pevn\u00fd hlas (v\u011bt\u0161inou star\u0161\u00ed a sebev\u011bdom\u011bj\u0161\u00ed holky), anebo mezi ty, kter\u00fdm se rozz\u00e1\u0159\u00ed o\u010di nad\u0161en\u00edm, kdy\u017e uc\u00edt\u00ed vibrace smsky v kabelce (mlad\u0161\u00ed stydliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obecn\u011b v\u0161ak z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u011b na tom, jak\u00fd pocit jste v holce zanechali p\u0159i osobn\u00ed interakci. Pokud je z v\u00e1s paf, m\u016f\u017eete j\u00ed na date pozvat klidn\u011b morseovkou a p\u0159ijde. Naopak kde nic nen\u00ed, tam to \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 sp\u00e1sn\u00e1 digi nezachr\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0159ele doporu\u010duji nezvat holku na kafe (v\u00edno, \u010daj, proch\u00e1zku atd.), ale v\u017edy vymyslet n\u011bjakou vtipnou z\u00e1minku, kter\u00e1 se bude pokud mo\u017eno vztahovat k va\u0161\u00ed p\u0159ede\u0161l\u00e9 komunikaci. Tak\u017ee jednou j\u00ed jdete sezn\u00e1mit s legislativn\u00edmi hranicemi sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, podruh\u00e9 v\u00e1m d\u00e1 lekci fracouz\u0161tiny, pot\u0159et\u00ed je to konzultace HDP Uzbekist\u00e1nu. \u010c\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed px\u010dovina, t\u00edm l\u00edp. Oba v\u00edte, \u017ee jde o rande, ale hran\u00ed takov\u00fdch her na blbe\u010dky holky nesm\u00edrn\u011b bav\u00ed a m\u011b taky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00e1le se mi osv\u011bd\u010dilo (credits to Sergio) d\u00e1vat t\u00e9 holce v\u00fdzvy. NENUCEN\u011a! A\u0165 si zvol\u00ed nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u016fni jakou m\u00e1, \u017ee si p\u0159i\u010dichnu a posoud\u00edm. A\u0165 si vezme nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed podpatky, \u017ee si d\u00e1me z\u00e1vody v b\u011bhu. A\u0165 slo\u017e\u00ed \u010dty\u0159ver\u0161\u00ed na t\u00e9ma mu\u017ei. C\u00edlem je holku podv\u011bdom\u011b p\u0159im\u011bt k tomu, aby do datu investovala u\u017e p\u0159edem, myslela na n\u011bj a t\u011b\u0161ila se. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b za to nab\u00eddn\u011bte protihodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Term\u00edn navrhujte!!! Nerozkazujte ani ne\u017e\u00e1dejte! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u010c\u00e1st druh\u00e1: P\u0159\u00edprava<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny nejsou v nahl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed na vzhled stejn\u00e9 jako mu\u017ei, pro n\u011b\u017e je vzhled m\u011b\u0159\u00edtkem z\u00e1sadn\u00edm a n\u011bkdy bohu\u017eel i jedin\u00fdm. T\u00edm nechci \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee by \u017een\u00e1m na vzhledu nez\u00e1le\u017eelo, ale nep\u0159isuzuj\u00ed mu takovou v\u00e1hu jako my. \u017deny jsou v tomhle jako semafory. Kdy\u017e se jim n\u011bkdo vylo\u017een\u011b nel\u00edb\u00ed, nasko\u010d\u00ed \u010derven\u00e1. Pokud je doty\u010dn\u00fd opravdu nadpozemsk\u00fd kun\u010f\u00e1k, tak m\u016f\u017ee dostat hned zelenou. Jen\u017ee tohle se st\u00e1v\u00e1 ve velmi v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech. V drtiv\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f na semaforu nasko\u010d\u00ed oran\u017eov\u00e1, co\u017e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee d\u00edvka shledala fyzickou str\u00e1nku uch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed a chce poznat, zda v tom uch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00edm t\u011ble s\u00eddl\u00ed chlap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud se tedy chyst\u00e1me na date, na\u0161\u00edm c\u00edlem je nevykoledovat si svou lenost\u00ed nebo blbost\u00ed \u010dervenou. Oran\u017eov\u00e1 n\u00e1m bohat\u011b sta\u010d\u00ed, proto\u017ee n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 mo\u017enost \u201epostoupit do druh\u00e9ho kola\u201c a tam to rozbalit v pln\u00e9 par\u00e1d\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee vzhledem nejsme absolutn\u011b determinov\u00e1ni a d\u00e1 se pom\u011brn\u011b jednodu\u0161e zlep\u0161it. T\u0159i stovky za kade\u0159nici, 2 litry za nov\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, \u00fasm\u011bv zadarmo a jste k nepozn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obecn\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e9 v\u011bci:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u010cistota<\/strong>&nbsp;(sprcha, vy\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9 zuby, \u010dist\u00e9 boty)- samoz\u0159ejmost<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dobrej ohoz<\/strong> \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 jin\u00fd styl, ale do\u0161el jsem k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee dob\u0159e se obl\u00e9ct je levn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e se obl\u00e9ct blb\u011b. Hezk\u00fd v\u011bci nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt drah\u00fd. Vid\u00edm to ve \u0161kole, kde maj\u00ed borci stra\u0161n\u00e9 zna\u010dkov\u00e9 mikiny se zna\u010dkov\u00fdma botaskama za n\u011bkolik tis\u00edc a j\u00e1 se s tri\u010dkem za 300,- a sakem za 999,- jenom usm\u00edv\u00e1m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te\u010f p\u0159id\u00e1m trochu know-how. Vysledoval jsem, \u017ee mi zab\u00edraj\u00ed 3 v\u011bci:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. O\u010di<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 nau\u010dte se ten \u201echlapskej pohled\u201c a pou\u017e\u00edvejte ho. Je to kombinace \u00fasm\u011bvu, drzosti a v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b namixovan\u00e1 do obou zorni\u010dek. Ka\u017edej z n\u00e1s ho um\u00ed. Kdy\u017e tak si p\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte Bar\u00e1nkovu Jak sbalit \u017eenu, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee tam k tomu m\u00e1 kapitolu. A\u017e se ho nau\u010d\u00edte, pou\u017e\u00edvejte ho!!! Pokud d\u00edvka pohled zachyt\u00ed a pak s jemn\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem sklop\u00ed o\u010di, m\u00e1te vyhr\u00e1no, um\u00edte ho&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/images\/smilies\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":-)\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ruce<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 divili byste se, ale \u017eensk\u00e9 jsou v tomhle stra\u0161n\u011b zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed (nebo jsem m\u011bl sam\u00e9 \u00fachyla\u010dky), snad ka\u017ed\u00e9 se stra\u0161n\u011b l\u00edb\u00ed chlapovy ruce. Zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 kdy\u017e jsou velk\u00e9 a m\u00e1te n\u011bjakou vystouplou \u017e\u00edlu. D\u00edvaj\u00ed se na n\u011b velice \u010dasto, dbejte tedy na \u010distotu a \u0159\u00e1dn\u011b ost\u0159\u00edhan\u00e9 nehty. Pokud bude vhodn\u00e1 z\u00e1minka, vemte ji do n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed a kousek neste. Je to od v\u00e1s podl\u00fd \u00fatok na jej\u00ed \u017eenskost, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 magick\u00e9 \u00fa\u010dinky&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/images\/smilies\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":-)\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. V\u016fn\u011b<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 ne\u0161et\u0159ete na kvalitn\u00edm parf\u00e9mu. Kupte si klidn\u011b dva nebo v\u00edc a st\u0159\u00eddejte je.&nbsp;<em>(credits to Qark)&nbsp;<\/em>Uvid\u00edte, co to s va\u0161\u00ed d\u00edvkou ud\u011bl\u00e1 a jak se r\u00e1da bude tulit, aby si mohla p\u0159i\u010dihnout, jak von\u00edte dneska.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nyn\u00ed jste p\u0159ipraven\u00ed a m\u016f\u017eete vyrazit! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u010c\u00e1st t\u0159et\u00ed: Bu\u010fte chlapi!<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je\u0161t\u011b ne\u017e za\u010dnu ps\u00e1t o pr\u016fb\u011bhu datu samotn\u00e9ho a o r\u016fzn\u00fdch konkr\u00e9tn\u00edch tipech a p\u0159\u00edkladech z \u201epraxe\u201c, r\u00e1d bych se dotknul z\u00e1kladn\u00edch princip\u016f, kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba pochopit a od nich\u017e je t\u0159eba odvozovat v\u0161e dal\u0161\u00ed. Jde mi o to, abyste nas\u00e1li ur\u010ditou esenci mu\u017estv\u00ed, kterou m\u00e1me zasetou v\u0161ichni v sob\u011b, ale romantick\u00e9 filmy, knihy o \u201eopravdov\u00e9 l\u00e1sce\u201c a starostliv\u00e9 maminky, j\u00ed dote\u010f nedovolily (naplno \u010di v\u016fbec) rozkv\u00e9st. Nechci tady ale n\u011bjak filosofovat, chci jen, abychom si na tomto m\u00edst\u011b uv\u011bdomili, co to znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt chlap, resp. jak se chlap chov\u00e1, a tyto poznatky p\u0159enesli do sv\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed na datech a k \u017een\u00e1m i d\u00edvk\u00e1m obecn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159edstavme si \u017eenu a mu\u017ee jako dva kous\u00ed\u010dky puzzle. Jsou si hodn\u011b podobn\u00e9, ale na jednom m\u00edst\u011b se tvarem li\u0161\u00ed. Kdy\u017e je ale \u010dlov\u011bk spoj\u00ed, pasuj\u00ed k sob\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b d\u00edky t\u00e9to odli\u0161nosti. Bez n\u00ed by byly oba stejn\u00e9, nezapadly by do sebe a nevytvo\u0159ily \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd celek, tvar \u010di obr\u00e1zek. Soust\u0159e\u010fme se tedy na ten rozd\u00edl, mu\u017e m\u00e1 v\u00fdstupek, \u017eensk\u00e1 vykrojenou d\u00edrku (pros\u00edm ponechme stranou v\u0161echny perverznosti, bav\u00edme se obrazn\u011b. Co tvo\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 \u201ev\u00fdstupek\u201c a jak se na datech chovat, abychom \u201ezapadli\u201c a d\u00edvku sbalili?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkde jsem \u010detl o teorii n\u011bkolika O, nev\u00edm kolik jich dohromady bylo, ale j\u00e1 si ji pro sebe modifikoval do T\u0158\u00cd O:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena douf\u00e1 a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee j\u00ed chlap Obvesel\u00ed, Ochr\u00e1n\u00ed a O\u0161uk\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na\u0161\u00edm c\u00edlem na datu tedy je, abychom co nej\u010dast\u011bji trefovali tyhle t\u0159i ter\u010de a dos\u00e1hli toho, \u017ee d\u00edvka po n\u00e1vratu z rande nebude moct usnout. A jak to ud\u011blat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Obveselit&nbsp;<\/strong>\u2013 smysl pro humor m\u00e1 snad ka\u017ed\u00e1 d\u00edvka na sv\u00e9m \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dku kvalit ide\u00e1lu chlapa hodn\u011b vysoko, ne-li \u00fapln\u011b nejv\u00fd\u0161e. N\u011bkolik holek mi p\u0159iznalo, \u017ee i p\u0159i zn\u00e1mosti na jednu noc je pro n\u011b tato vlastnost minim\u00e1ln\u011b stejn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1, jako vzhled. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b to neznamen\u00e1, na\u010d\u00edst si t\u0159i \u010d\u00edsla Trnk\u016f Brnk\u016f a pak j\u00ed hodinu a p\u016fl vykl\u00e1dat na rande vtipy. Ka\u017ed\u00fd ale p\u0159ece m\u00e1me vtipn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edhody a historky, nebojte se je do konverzace zapojit. S oblibou se pt\u00e1m d\u00edvek na jejich nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed trapasy a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m svoje. Nejen, \u017ee v\u00e1s to zase o kousek v\u00edc spoj\u00ed, ale hlavn\u011b se spolu zasm\u011bjete. Poslouchejte, co v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 a vtipn\u011b reagujte, nep\u0159ikyvujte na v\u0161echno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00e1le se nebojte si z n\u00ed d\u011blat srandu, ka\u017ed\u00fd takov\u00fd vt\u00edpek zakon\u010dujte p\u0159\u00edm\u00fdm pohledem do o\u010d\u00ed a ro\u0161\u0165\u00e1ck\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem. Hlavn\u011b ji ale hloup\u011b neur\u00e1\u017eejte, mus\u00edte b\u00fdt hrav\u00ed! Pro tohle mus\u00edte m\u00edt vyvinut\u00fd soci\u00e1ln\u00ed cit, kter\u00fd v\u00e1m na\u0161ept\u00e1v\u00e1, kam a\u017e se d\u00e1 zaj\u00edt. Obecn\u011b plat\u00ed, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l jdete, t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch m\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt, ale jakmile jednou p\u0159est\u0159el\u00edte, tak nap\u00e1ch\u00e1te opravdu velk\u00e9, ne-li ni\u010div\u00e9 \u0161kody. Kdy\u017e se d\u00edvka v reakci sm\u011bje a krout\u00ed hlavou, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 v\u00e1m: \u201eTy se\u0161 blbej\u201c nebo \u201eZlob\u00ed\u0161\u201c apod., tak jdete spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem. Stejn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je um\u011bt si ud\u011blat srandu s\u00e1m ze sebe. Klidn\u011b oce\u0148te, kdy\u017e se p\u0159i vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m dob\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edvka tref\u00ed a ut\u0159e v\u00e1s. R\u00e1d se zasm\u011bju s n\u00ed a p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b t\u0159eba set\u0159u j\u00e1 ji. Je to jen hra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu\u010fte nevyzpytateln\u00ed, vtipn\u011b drz\u00ed. D\u011blejte v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 ne\u010dek\u00e1. S\u00e1zejte se o blbosti.<br>Jeden z tis\u00edc\u016f p\u0159\u00edklad\u016f z praxe: Mu\u017e m\u00e1 v puse vy\u017ev\u00fdkanou \u017ev\u00fdka\u010dku. Poznamen\u00e1 sm\u011brem ke sle\u010dn\u011b, \u017ee nech\u00e1pe, pro\u010d v t\u00e9hle kav\u00e1rn\u011b nevedou odpadkov\u00e9 ko\u0161e. Pak nasad\u00ed l\u00edbac\u00ed pohled, sle\u010dna zav\u0159e o\u010di, rozev\u0159e rty a mu\u017e se p\u0159i francouz\u00e1ku t\u00e9 \u017ev\u00fdka\u010dky \u201ezbav\u00ed\u201c. Po chvilce \u0161pi\u010dkov\u00e1n\u00ed, pak m\u016f\u017eou pokra\u010dovat v odvet\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Ochr\u00e1nit<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 nejde o to se p\u0159ed d\u00edvkou porvat, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 opileck\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed holky siln\u011b odpuzuje. V ka\u017edodenn\u00edm \u017eivote se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me s mnoha druhy nebezpe\u010d\u00ed a n\u00e1strah, nejen s nebezpe\u010d\u00edm fyzick\u00e9ho napaden\u00ed. Jsou tady konflikty se sousedkou, neopr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00e9 exekuce, \u00famrt\u00ed v rodin\u011b, propu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed z pr\u00e1ce, stalke\u0159i a dal\u0161\u00ed stovky situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 by \u017eena rad\u011bji \u0159e\u0161ila s chlapem ne\u017e sama. My v holce chceme probudit pocit, \u017ee bychom j\u00ed ochr\u00e1nit um\u011bli, kdy\u017e by p\u0159i\u0161lo na v\u011bc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u011bl\u00e1m to dv\u011bma zp\u016fsoby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Date m\u00e1m v rukou j\u00e1, se v\u0161\u00edm v\u0161udy. J\u00e1 navrhuju, kam se p\u016fjde a kdy. J\u00e1 se sna\u017e\u00edm tu konverzaci n\u011bjak v\u00e9st a posouvat. J\u00e1 se za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m bavit s \u010d\u00ed\u0161n\u00edkem. J\u00e1 rozseknu, jak to bude s placen\u00edm. J\u00e1 se j\u00ed dot\u00fdk\u00e1m, j\u00e1 ji l\u00edb\u00e1m. Prost\u011b d\u00edvka m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee m\u00e1m situaci pod kontrolou. Neznamen\u00e1 to ov\u0161em, \u017ee budete d\u00edvku dusit a nenech\u00e1te ji promluvit! Jste prost\u011b ko\u010d\u00ed, kter\u00fd nech\u00e1 ko\u010d\u00e1r jet celkem voln\u011b a v klidu, ale \u010das od \u010dasu zat\u00e1hne za ote\u017ee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud se spolu dostanete do n\u011bjak\u00e9 nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 situaci, \u0159e\u0161te j\u00ed jako chlap! Nap\u0159. jedete \u0161alinou do divadla, p\u0159\u00edjde revizor a ona zjist\u00ed, \u017ee si zapomn\u011bla si \u0161alinkartu v druh\u00e9 pen\u011b\u017eence, vstupte do toho a s revizorem j\u00ed to pomo\u017ete urovnat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Druh\u00fdm faktorem je galantnost a gentlemanstv\u00ed. Podr\u017ete j\u00ed dve\u0159e, pomo\u017ete j\u00ed z kab\u00e1tu a do n\u011bj, sem tam j\u00ed n\u011bco pochvalte, kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m to l\u00edb\u00ed. Nenucen\u011b, ne jako sna\u017eivec, kter\u00fd slint\u00e1, \u017ee by mu pak za odm\u011bnu mohla d\u00e1t, ale jako chlap, kter\u00fd tohle d\u011bl\u00e1 u\u017e z podstaty a d\u011bl\u00e1 to r\u00e1d. V kombinaci s chov\u00e1n\u00edm, kter\u00e9 budu popisovat v dal\u0161\u00edm odstavci je tahle kombinace pro cht\u00ed\u010d d\u00edvky vra\u017eedn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. O\u0161ukat<\/strong><br>Co si budeme vykl\u00e1dat, sex je pro holky snad je\u0161t\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pro chlapy. Na datu se samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neboj\u00edme zahr\u00e1t i na strunu d\u00edv\u010diny sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed fantazie, t\u00edm se rovn\u011b\u017e odli\u0161ujeme od jej\u00edch kamar\u00e1d\u016f a z\u00e1stupu AFC ctitel\u016f. Chceme, aby po ve\u010deru str\u00e1ven\u00e9m s n\u00e1mi nejenom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela o tom, co bylo, ale aby si v hlav\u011b vytv\u00e1\u0159ela pom\u011brn\u011b detailn\u00ed p\u0159edstavy o tom, co by b\u00fdt mohlo \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Bu\u010fte sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed. Dot\u00fdkejte se j\u00ed, koukejte zp\u0159\u00edma do o\u010d\u00ed. Bu\u010fte kreativn\u00ed p\u0159i l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed. Va\u0161imi spojenci na jej\u00edm t\u011ble jsou krk a u\u0161n\u00ed lal\u016f\u010dky. Tak\u017ee zkoumejte \u0159et\u00edzky, n\u00e1u\u0161nice, d\u00fdchejte j\u00ed na krk, kousn\u011bte do lal\u016f\u010dku apod. Bu\u010fte drz\u00ed, klidn\u011b j\u00ed n\u011bco pov\u00eddejte a zad\u00edvejte se j\u00ed do v\u00fdst\u0159ihu a na chvilku se zarazte, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s \u201ep\u0159istihne\u201c, tak se je\u0161t\u011b chvilku d\u00edvejte d\u00e1l, \u0159ekn\u011bte, \u017ee jste si opravdu nemohli pomoct, pak odtrhn\u011bte o\u010di, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 neznateln\u011b si ol\u00edzn\u011bte horn\u00ed ret (jen jako byste si ho cht\u011bli oslinit) a v klidu pokra\u010dujte v p\u0159eru\u0161en\u00e9 konverzaci. Nebojte se j\u00ed po\u0161eptat ost\u0159ej\u0161\u00ed slova, ono \u0159\u00edct holce t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jakoukoliv formou, \u017ee je n\u00e1dhern\u00e1 a chcete se s n\u00ed pomilovat, je pro ni obrovsk\u00e1 lichotka (hodiny d\u0159iny ve fitku a dlouh\u00e9 chv\u00edle str\u00e1ven\u00e9 holen\u00edm v\u0161ude mo\u017en\u011b, um\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00edm vlas\u016fm a malov\u00e1n\u00edm st\u00e1ly za to \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tyto rady posuzujte podle f\u00e1ze, ve kter\u00e9 se s d\u00edvkou nach\u00e1z\u00edte. Asi t\u011b\u017eko j\u00ed budete kousat do ucha a \u0161eptat o l\u00edz\u00e1n\u00ed kundi\u010dky, kdy\u017e jste j\u00ed zat\u00edm ani nedali pusu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong> Chcete se dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce? P\u0159idejte se na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nekomer\u010dn\u00ed \u010desko-slovensk\u00e9 f\u00f3rum o pickupu a spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamice. Registrujte se zdarma na: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/\"><strong>https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: Stoudy Na podn\u011bt n\u011bkter\u00fdch brn\u011bnsk\u00fdch bali\u010d\u016f jsem se rozhodl sepsat n\u011bkolik \u0159\u00e1dek o \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9m rand\u011bn\u00ed. U\u017e jsem o tom kdysi p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161el i na Brainstormingu, tak se to nyn\u00ed pokus\u00edm dostat na pap\u00edr. Pro\u010d zrovna daty? M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee je to nejz\u00e1bavn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st balen\u00ed v\u016fbec a nav\u00edc se v nich pova\u017euju za celkem pokro\u010dil\u00e9ho. 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