{"id":30,"date":"2020-11-15T21:56:22","date_gmt":"2020-11-15T20:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/?p=30"},"modified":"2020-11-27T12:39:19","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T11:39:19","slug":"zan-perrion-the-way-of-the-natural","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socialdynamics.cz\/index.php\/2020\/11\/15\/zan-perrion-the-way-of-the-natural\/","title":{"rendered":"Zan Perrion &#8211; Cesta Natur\u00e1la"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159ekladatel: Jarda Houska <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Jako natur\u00e1l se mu\u017e nenarod\u00ed. Natur\u00e1lov\u00e9 jsou mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed se v ur\u010dit\u00e9m momentu rozhodli b\u00fdt dob\u0159\u00ed se \u017eenami. A d\u00edky sv\u00e9mu vlastn\u00edmu odhodl\u00e1n\u00ed, zkou\u0161en\u00ed, p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u00fasp\u011bch\u016f a objevov\u00e1n\u00ed toho co funguje, se vypracovali tak, \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017eou sv\u00e9st t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017edou \u017eenu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e se zept\u00e1te n\u011bjak\u00e9ho natur\u00e1la, v \u010dem spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 jeho \u00fasp\u011bch u \u017een, obvykle odpov\u00ed: &#8222;J\u00e1 nev\u00edm, prost\u011b bu\u010f s\u00e1m sebou.&#8220; Je to hodn\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vysv\u011btlit. Pot\u0159ebujete ur\u010dit\u011b velk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Ov\u0161em ani to nen\u00ed v\u0161echno, je nutn\u00e9 b\u00fdt vnit\u0159n\u011b v pohod\u011b (inner clarity) a m\u00edt pro \u017eeny porozum\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zan odhalil 10 charakterov\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd natur\u00e1l. Mo\u017en\u00e1, \u017ee je j\u00edch v\u00edc, ale t\u011bchto deset rys\u016f m\u00e1 v povaze ka\u017ed\u00fd \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd sv\u016fdce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 1. &#8212; Ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena je moje \u017eena.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natur\u00e1l dok\u00e1\u017ee d\u00e1t \u017een\u011b pocit, \u017ee ona je \u017dena. Sv\u016fdce m\u00e1 r\u00e1d \u017eeny, m\u00e1 r\u00e1d v\u0161echny \u017eeny bez rozd\u00edlu, dok\u00e1\u017ee flirtovat i se 6Oletou v\u00fd\u010depn\u00ed a d\u00e1t j\u00ed poc\u00edtit, \u017ee i ona je \u017eena. M\u00e1m pochopen\u00ed pro v\u0161echny \u017eeny a pamatuje si v\u0161echny \u017eeny se kter\u00fdmi kdy byl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na jedn\u00e9 party vid\u011bl \u00fachvatnou d\u00edvku, kter\u00e1 sed\u011bla na gau\u010di, uprost\u0159ed mezi dv\u011bma sv\u00fdma kamar\u00e1dkama. P\u0159isedl jsem si a za\u010dal se bavit s tou na kraji, nejbl\u00ed\u017e ke mn\u011b, vtipkoval s n\u00ed a dob\u0159e si pov\u00eddal. Za chvilku ke m\u011b p\u0159i\u0161el n\u011bjak\u00fd zn\u00e1m\u00fd, naklonil se a \u0159ekl tak aby to v\u0161ichni sly\u0161eli: &#8222;Co tu d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 Zane, je\u0161t\u011b jsem t\u011b nikdy p\u0159edt\u00edm nevid\u011bl balit tlustoprdku!&#8220;. Nemohl jsem uv\u011b\u0159it tomu co mi \u0159ekl. Pod\u00edval jsem se na tu holku, nebyla v\u016fbec \u0161kared\u00e1, ale tahle hl\u00e1\u0161ka j\u00ed, podle v\u00fdrazu v obli\u010deji, zlomila srdce. Vzal jsem j\u00ed za ruce a do konce party byl jsem jen s n\u00ed a dal j\u00ed vychutnat ten pocit, \u017ee tenhle ve\u010der je ona moje holka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny maj\u00ed naprosto stejn\u00e9 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed touhy jako mu\u017ei, ale soci\u00e1ln\u00ed programov\u00e1n\u00ed je nut\u00ed je to skr\u00fdvat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 2 &#8212; Ka\u017ed\u00fd opravdov\u00fd milovn\u00edk v\u00ed, \u017ee ve\u0161kerou moc kterou m\u00e1 nad \u017eenami, je p\u0159esn\u011b ta moc, kterou maj\u00ed ony nad n\u00edm.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J\u00e1 jsem pro ni&nbsp;<em>Hodnota<\/em>, ona je jen \u017eena a nade mnou nem\u00e1 v\u016fbec \u017e\u00e1dnou moc! Teoreticky je to spr\u00e1vn\u011b, ale prakticky ka\u017ed\u00fd sv\u016fdce um\u00ed d\u00e1t najevo i svoji zranitelnost ve vztahu se \u017eenami a to, \u017ee ho t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee ona m\u00e1 o n\u011bj z\u00e1jem. Mu\u017e, kter\u00fd miluje \u017eeny, je milov\u00e1n \u017eenami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd p\u0159ed n\u00ed nikdy neprojev\u00ed slabost, kter\u00fd ve vztahu k n\u00ed v\u017edy v\u00ed, co \u0159\u00edct a jak se chovat v ka\u017ed\u00e9 situaci, j\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee nah\u00e1n\u011bt strach. Prost\u011b to vypad\u00e1 nep\u0159irozen\u011b a postr\u00e1d\u00e1 to lidskost. I natur\u00e1lov\u00e9 n\u011bkdy projev\u00ed malou slabost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny p\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed si dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed d\u011blat legraci sami ze sebe. Mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed projevit lidskost a zranitelnost. Trik je v tom neprojevovat svoj\u00ed slabost \u010dasto!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gary Grant odpov\u011bd\u011bl na ot\u00e1zku, jak to \u017ee je tak \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fd se \u017eenami: &#8222;\u0158\u00edk\u00e1m jim: Nikdy se mi nepostav\u00ed!&#8220; (I tell them I can&#8217;t get it up.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve vztahu k \u017een\u00e1m jsem naprosto nespoutan\u00fd. Nikdy mi nevadilo, kdy\u017e m\u011b \u017eena odm\u00edtla, \u0159ekla mi, \u017ee m\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edtele a podobn\u011b. To jsou jenom slova.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kl\u00ed\u010dem je um\u011bt projevit svoje touhy. P\u0159ijdu k \u017een\u011b a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m: &#8222;Jsi moc roztomil\u00e1, l\u00edb\u00ed\u0161 se mi, je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkdy bych t\u011b cht\u011bl vid\u011bt!&#8220;. Ona se zaraz\u00ed a pov\u00edd\u00e1: &#8222;Jde\u0161 v\u017edycky p\u0159\u00edmo na v\u011bc?&#8220;. J\u00e1 na to: &#8222;Nev\u00edm co to je, co m\u011b na tob\u011b tak p\u0159itahuje, ale chci to zjistit!&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 3. &#8212; \u017dij sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed jej\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tohle neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by jsi j\u00ed nev\u011bnoval pozornost a net\u011b\u0161il se z jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti. Prost\u011b si d\u011blej co chce\u0161, kdy\u017e chce\u0161 jet do d\u017eungle a tou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 po dobrodru\u017est\u00ed, je\u010f! Pokud chce\u0161 nab\u00eddni j\u00ed, \u017ee m\u016f\u017ee jet s tebou, ale jestli pojede \u010di nikoliv, to z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed jen a jen na n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed chybu, kterou ud\u011bl\u00e1 spousta mu\u017e\u016f je ta, \u017ee si najdou holku a pak ve\u0161kerou svoj\u00ed pozornost zam\u011b\u0159\u00ed na n\u00ed a ud\u011blaj\u00ed si z n\u00ed d\u016fvod i smysl \u017eivota. Chlap, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 u \u017een \u00fasp\u011bchy se nikdy takto nechov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160patn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup: &#8222;Pot\u0159ebuju holku jako ty, kter\u00e1 m\u011b schv\u00e1l\u00ed a d\u00edky kter\u00e9 budu kone\u010dn\u011b kompletn\u00ed. Tvoj\u00ed pozornost si zaslou\u017e\u00edm n\u00e1kupem kv\u011btin, d\u00e1rk\u016f, zvan\u00edm na ve\u010de\u0159e.&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016fj p\u0159\u00edstup: &#8222;Chci holku p\u0159esn\u011b takovou jako jsi ty!&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Existuj\u00ed dva zp\u016fsoby jak oslovit \u017eenu &#8212; s p\u0159irozen\u00fdm sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a se strojenou pov\u00fd\u0161enost\u00ed. Nikdy nenech sklouznout prvn\u00ed zp\u016fsob k tomu druh\u00e9mu. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 si \u0159\u00edct: &#8222;Je tady spousta \u017eensk\u00fdch bude d\u00e1l\u0161\u00ed, j\u00e1 jsem Hodnota, je to jen tvoje ztr\u00e1ta!&#8220;. Ano, je to pro n\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta, to je pravda, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 i pro tebe, proto\u017ee ona se ti l\u00edbila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 4. &#8212; Up\u0159\u00edmnost je jedno z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch afrodiziak.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00edky up\u0159\u00edmnosti \u017eena pozn\u00e1, \u017ee nejsi jako ostatn\u00ed mu\u017ei. V\u0161echen strach a negativn\u00ed emoce ve vztahu, kter\u00e9 ona pro\u017eije zp\u016fsob\u00ed\u0161 ty. Kdy\u017e se ti \u017eena otev\u0159e emocion\u00e1ln\u011b, sexu\u00e1ln\u011b a m\u00e1 k tob\u011b plnou d\u016fv\u011bru je hrozn\u011b moc zraniteln\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017den\u011b nen\u00ed nutn\u00e9 lh\u00e1t proto, abys j\u00ed dostal do postele a pozd\u011bji j\u00ed zlomil srdce. Ovlivn\u00ed to jej\u00ed budouc\u00ed vztah k mu\u017e\u016fm, je to jako kdy\u017e se &#8222;vych\u010dije\u0161 do baz\u00e9nu&#8220;, ka\u017ed\u00fd si v tom pak mus\u00ed zaplavat&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Up\u0159\u00edmnost p\u0159i osloven\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017ee \u017eenu otev\u0159\u00edt, u\u017e b\u011bhem prvn\u00edch minut bude v\u011bd\u011bt jestli t\u011b chce a nebo jestli budete jednom kamar\u00e1di.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak \u017eena zjist\u00ed, \u017ee jsi k n\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd? \u0158ekni j\u00ed to. J\u00e1 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee nejsem jako ostatn\u00ed mu\u017ei a ona mi bude d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. \u0158eknu: &#8222;Posly\u0161, v\u0161echno co o m\u011b pot\u0159ebuje\u0161 v\u011bd\u011bt je, \u017ee jsem naprosto up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd. Netu\u0161\u00edm co budoucnost p\u0159inese, ale te\u010f v\u00edm, \u017ee se mi l\u00edb\u00ed\u0161. Mo\u017en\u00e1 nebudu ten, kdo s tebou str\u00e1v\u00ed cel\u00fd \u017eivot, ale ur\u010dit\u011b budu n\u011bkdo, koho si bude\u0161 cel\u00fd \u017eivot pamatovat.&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 5. &#8212; Nikdy nemluv o tom, \u017ee s n\u00ed n\u011bco m\u011bl.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spousta kluk\u016f d\u00e1 holce pusu na tv\u00e1\u0159 a pak se chlub\u00ed, co s n\u00ed m\u011bli. Mu\u017e kter\u00fd m\u011bl spoustu \u017een je machr, \u017eena kter\u00e1 m\u011bla spoustu mu\u017e\u016f je d\u011bvka. Ale pokud bude v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee jej\u00ed rodina, p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, kolegov\u00e9 v pr\u00e1ci se nic nedov\u00ed, otev\u0159e se ti ohromuj\u00edc\u00edm zp\u016fsobem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u017edycky \u017een\u011b vysv\u011btl\u00edm, \u017ee si u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m \u017eivota a nikdy se neomlouv\u00e1m za svoje mu\u017esk\u00e9 touhy. Vyzkou\u0161et si v\u011bci jen nap\u016fl, to nen\u00ed n\u011bco co je pro m\u011b p\u0159irozen\u00e9. Pot\u0159ebuji \u017e\u00edt a pot\u0159ebuji si v\u0161echno dokonale vychutnat. Kdy\u017e cestuji do zahrani\u010d\u00ed, nikdy nez\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1m jen na turistick\u00fdch cesti\u010dk\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dena je pro m\u011b jako v\u00edno. Jako opravdu dobr\u00e9 v\u00edno, kter\u00e9 si mus\u00edm vychutnat na v\u0161ech \u00farovn\u00edch &#8212; prohl\u00e9dnout si, p\u0159ivon\u011bt, vychutnat si texturu chuti a jej\u00ed jemn\u00e9 nuance. Naplno!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 6. &#8212; Nikdy se neomlouv\u00e1m za to, co jsem!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00edm, \u017ee se p\u0159ed n\u00ed za\u010dne\u0161 kvalifikovat, jen chce\u0161, aby t\u011b ona schv\u00e1lila. Kdy\u017e m\u011b obvin\u00ed z toho \u017ee jsem bali\u010d, sm\u011bju se. Ona v\u00ed, kdo jsem. Nesna\u017e\u00edm se j\u00ed p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dovat, aby ze m\u011b m\u011bla dobr\u00fd dojem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spousta mu\u017e\u016f se sna\u017e\u00ed schovat svoj\u00ed p\u0159irozenost jen proto, aby zanechali dobr\u00fd dojem. J\u00e1 takov\u00fd nejsem! Kdy\u017e m\u011b \u017eena z n\u011b\u010deho obvin\u00ed p\u0159evedu to na vtip, ale nikdy se nebr\u00e1n\u00edm a nesna\u017e\u00edm se ospravedl\u0148ovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159\u00edklad rozhovoru: &#8222;V\u00ed\u0161, jsem ten nejup\u0159\u00edmn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chlap na sv\u011bt\u011b, nejsem jako ostatn\u00ed. Spousta mu\u017e\u016f p\u0159ed tebou budou skr\u00fdvat svoje p\u0159irozen\u00e9 touhy, proto\u017ee se jim l\u00edb\u00ed\u0161 a oni na tebe budou cht\u00edt ud\u011blat ten nejlep\u0161\u00ed dojem. Rozd\u00edl je ten, \u017ee se mi l\u00edb\u00ed\u0161, ale j\u00e1 neskr\u00fdv\u00e1m svoje touhy!&#8220; A ona \u0159ekne n\u011bco jako: &#8222;Tak\u017ee ty si takhle zahr\u00e1v\u00e1\u0161?&#8220;. A j\u00e1 na to: &#8222;Nikdy si nehraju s emocemi. Tou\u017e\u00edm po tob\u011b, to je pravda, bude p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 kdy\u017e z\u016fstane\u0161, jsi moc hezk\u00e1, ale kdy\u017e te\u010f odejde\u0161 pochop\u00edm to.&#8220;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ona m\u016f\u017ee odpov\u011bd\u011bt t\u0159eba: &#8222;J\u00e1 nechci b\u00fdt jen jedna z tv\u00fdch holek!&#8220;, &#8222;Tomu rozum\u00edm. V\u00ed\u0161, moc se mi l\u00edb\u00ed\u0161, jsi p\u0159esn\u011b ten typ \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 m\u011b p\u0159itahuj\u00ed. Pro te\u010f i budoucnost ti sl\u00edb\u00edm dv\u011b v\u011bci. Zaprv\u00e9 ti nikdy nebudu lh\u00e1t a zahr\u00e1vat si s tv\u00fdmi city. A za druh\u00e9, kdy\u017e budeme spolu, vychutn\u00e1me si to tak, jako nikdy p\u0159edt\u00edm.&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sv\u016fdce si nikdy nezahr\u00e1v\u00e1 s jej\u00edmi city, proto\u017ee \u017eeny miluje, m\u00e1 pro n\u011b spoustu porozum\u011bn\u00ed a empatie. Nepot\u0159ebuje se omlouvat za to co je.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 7. &#8212; Nikdy neber sebe, j\u00ed nebo danou situaci p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neboj se d\u011blat si legraci s\u00e1m ze sebe. Ka\u017ed\u00fd kdo se um\u00ed zasm\u00e1t s\u00e1m sob\u011b t\u00edm d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, \u017ee si je jist\u00fd s\u00e1m sebou. \u017deny \u010dasto uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee miluj\u00ed na mu\u017e\u00edch smysl pro humor a pr\u00e1v\u011b tohle je ten druh humoru, kter\u00fd se jim l\u00edb\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00fd kdo si um\u00ed d\u011blat legraci s\u00e1m ze sebe mus\u00ed m\u00edt proto dostate\u010dn\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Spousta mu\u017e\u016f tohle neum\u00ed, sna\u017e\u00ed se machrovat, zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148uje jin\u00e9, d\u011bl\u00e1 si legraci na ciz\u00ed \u00fa\u010det. Jenom\u017ee \u017eeny tohle vn\u00edmaj\u00ed jako arogantn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u011bjte na pam\u011bti, kdy\u017e mluv\u00edm o tom, d\u011blat si legraci s\u00e1m ze sebe, nemysl\u00edm t\u00edm, d\u011blat ze sebe \u0161a\u0161ka a nebo se shazovat ve stylu Woodyho Allena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 8. &#8212; Sv\u016fdce si uv\u011bdomuje siln\u00fd vliv \u0159e\u010di t\u011bla.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0161ichni zn\u00e1me studii, kter\u00e1 \u0159\u00edka, \u017ee 93 % komunikace je z\u00e1visl\u00e1 na \u0159e\u010di t\u011bla, z 55 % na\u0161e vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed ovlivn\u00ed vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed dojem &#8212; to jak se tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed\u0161, stoj\u00ed\u0161, jak k n\u00ed p\u0159ijd\u011b\u0161. Dal\u0161\u00edch 35 % vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed ovliv\u0148uje intonace a t\u00f3n hlasu. A jenom 7 % komunikace, tedy toho co \u017een\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1\u0161 m\u00e1 vliv na to, jak\u00fd z tebe bude m\u00edt celkov\u00fd dojem!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010clov\u011bk nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt raketov\u00fd v\u011bdec, aby zjistil, \u017ee nen\u00ed d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, ale jak to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1! Spousta \u017een si o v\u00e1s ud\u011bl\u00e1 dojem b\u011bhem prvn\u00edch 10 sekund.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Natur\u00e1l tohle v\u0161echno p\u0159irozen\u011b ovl\u00e1d\u00e1, uv\u011bdomuje a dok\u00e1\u017ee mistrn\u011b vytvo\u0159it sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 k n\u00ed svoj\u00ed \u0159e\u010d\u00ed t\u011bla a intonac\u00ed hlasu vys\u00edl\u00e1. Udr\u017euje s n\u00ed o\u010dn\u00ed kontakt, usm\u00edv\u00e1 se, usm\u00edv\u00e1 se o\u010dima. To je ten druh charisma a aury, kter\u00e1 ostatn\u00ed lidi p\u0159itahuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed komunikace, nen\u00ed komunikace o sexu, ale je to forma komunikace, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed podtext, spoustu o\u010dn\u00edho kontaktu a sv\u00e1divou \u0159e\u010d t\u011ble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny se dot\u00fdk\u00e1m hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku, m\u00e1m ruku na jej\u00edch z\u00e1dech je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159edt\u00edm ne\u017e cokoliv \u0159eknu. Spousta t\u00fdpk\u016f v klubu za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 osloven\u00ed n\u011bjakou hl\u00e1\u0161kou: &#8222;Ahoj, jak to jde?&#8220; a k \u017een\u011b p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed zezadu nebo zep\u0159edu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy\u017e j\u00e1 oslovuji, d\u011bl\u00e1m to p\u0159irozen\u011b z boku. Vpluji k n\u00ed, \u0159eknu t\u0159eba: &#8222;Ahoj, jak se jmenuje\u0161?!&#8220; a okam\u017eit\u011b se j\u00ed dot\u00fdk\u00e1m, na rameni, na lokti, ne z\u00e1dech. P\u0159irozen\u00e9 dot\u00fdk\u00e1n\u00ed mus\u00ed b\u00fdt sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed va\u0161\u00ed povahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud se j\u00ed neoslov\u00edte takov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem a za\u010dnete se dot\u00fdkat nep\u0159irozen\u011b a\u017e pozd\u011bji, ony to poznaj\u00ed. Jednou jsem p\u0159i\u0161el v klubu za dv\u011bma n\u00e1dhern\u00fdma holkama, ob\u011b byly kamar\u00e1dky a j\u00e1 se jich hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku lehce dot\u00fdkal na z\u00e1dech a ramenou, bavil se a sm\u00e1l se v jejich spole\u010dnosti. Pak jedna z holek \u0159ekla: &#8222;Podjm\u011b n\u011bkam jinam, t\u00e1mhle ten t\u00fdpek je hroznej!&#8220; Pod\u00edval jsem se na toho chl\u00e1pka, kter\u00fd po nich zrovna pokukoval a pt\u00e1m se holek: &#8222;Co se v\u00e1m na n\u011bm nel\u00edb\u00ed?&#8220; Jedna z nich odpov\u011bd\u011bla: &#8222;Kdy\u017e se se mnou bavil, po\u0159\u00e1d na m\u011b \u0161ahal. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1me mu Pan Slizounek.&#8220;. Za\u010dal jsem se sm\u00e1t: &#8222;Tak jemu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te Slizounek a p\u0159itom j\u00e1 se v\u00e1s dot\u00fdk\u00e1m u\u017e od chv\u00edle co jsem p\u0159i\u0161el!&#8220; Ony se taky rozesm\u00e1ly a \u0159ekly: &#8222;My v\u00edme, ale ty to d\u011bl\u00e1\u0161 naprosto p\u0159irozen\u011b!&#8220;. A tohle je ten rozd\u00edl o kter\u00e9m mluv\u00edm, nebu\u010f Pan Slizk\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 9. &#8212; \u017deny nep\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei kte\u0159\u00ed dob\u0159e vypadaj\u00ed, ale ti kte\u0159\u00ed jsou atraktivn\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Historie je pln\u00e1 sv\u016fdc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli u \u017een \u00fasp\u011bchy, ale p\u0159itom nevypadali v\u016fbec dob\u0159e! Byli p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mal\u00ed, tlust\u00ed nebo ple\u0161at\u00ed a p\u0159itom svedli libovolnou \u017eenu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nikdy jsem se nepova\u017eoval za krasavce, m\u00e1m n\u011bco lep\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e kr\u00e1su &#8212; n\u00e1padn\u011b p\u016fvabn\u00fd zp\u016fsob jak oslnit svoj\u00ed osobnost\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jean-Paul Sartre, velk\u00fd spisovatel a milovn\u00edk \u017een, m\u011b\u0159il 152 cm a naprosto postr\u00e1dal fyzickou kr\u00e1su. P\u0159itom mu \u017eeny padaly k noh\u00e1m!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny ho milovaly za to, \u017ee jim dok\u00e1zal popsat jejich du\u0161i. Mu\u017ei miluj\u00ed proto co vid\u00ed, ale \u017eeny proto co sly\u0161\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voltair \u0159ekl: &#8222;Dej mi p\u011bt minut, abych vymluvil m\u016fj \u0161eredn\u00fd obli\u010dej a dostanu do postele Kr\u00e1lovnu Francie!&#8220; (Give me five minutes to talk away my ugly face and I&#8217;ll bed the Queen of France.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny maj\u00ed pro takov\u00e9 mu\u017ee v\u00fdraz &#8222;sexy ugly&#8220;. Sexy ugly je chlap, kter\u00fd j\u00ed p\u0159itahuje i proti jej\u00ed v\u016fli. Je to ten kter\u00fd se objevuje v jejich erotick\u00fdch snech. Ne proto, \u017ee by po n\u011bm tou\u017eila, ale proto, \u017ee si uplat\u0148uje pr\u00e1vo si v nich b\u00fdt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017deny v\u011bd\u00ed b\u011bhem 5 minut, jestli by se s takov\u00fdm chlapem vyspaly nebo ne. Jedna kamar\u00e1dka mi \u0159\u00edkala, \u017ee \u017eeny si ur\u010duj\u00ed n\u011bco jako Faktor \u0160uk\u00e9znosti. Kdy\u017e se \u017eena s mu\u017eem poprv\u00e9 setk\u00e1, do 30 sekund si ho p\u0159edstav\u00ed v n\u011bjak\u00e9 smysln\u00e9 poloze p\u0159i sexu. Pokud si sex s n\u00edm dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159edstavit, pak bude vn\u00edmav\u00e1 i k jeho dvo\u0159en\u00ed. Pokud si ho p\u0159edstavit nedok\u00e1\u017ee, tak s n\u00edm sp\u00e1t nebude&#8230; U\u017e nikdy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vlastnost \u010d. 10. &#8212; Pro opravdov\u00e9 sv\u016fdce jeho vztahy nikdy nekon\u010d\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejte o tom chvilku. Spojen\u00ed kter\u00e9 vznikne mezi sv\u016fdcem a \u017eenou m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159etrvat nav\u017edy. V\u0161ichni natur\u00e1lov\u00e9 z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 sv\u00fdch \u017een. Vytvo\u0159 spojen\u00ed a vyvolej v n\u00ed spoustu chemie. Bude si m\u011b pamatovat do konce \u017eivota. I kdy\u017e se pak va\u0161e cesty rozd\u011bl\u00ed, \u017eena nebude m\u00edt d\u016fvod, aby proti tob\u011b \u0159ekla jedno \u0161patn\u00e9 slovo. P\u0159esto\u017ee spolu nebudete po\u0159\u00e1d, ty bude\u0161 ten, koho si ona bude napo\u0159\u00e1d pamatovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dena si bude p\u0159ipadat podveden\u00e1 jen v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee se j\u00ed nedostane n\u011bco, co jsi j\u00ed sl\u00edbil. Ned\u00e1vejte j\u00ed sliby, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed trvalou platnost, nikdy nev\u00edte co budoucnost m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e9st. Dejte j\u00ed prostor a volnost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jako p\u0159\u00edklad toho, \u017ee vztah nikdy nekon\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1m pov\u00edm n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Moje p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b dostala n\u00e1pad, \u017ee na moj\u00ed narozeninovou oslavu pozve moje b\u00fdval\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b. P\u0159i\u0161lo jich 9 a byl to jeden z m\u00edch nejl\u00e9pe str\u00e1ven\u00fdch dn\u016f v \u017eivot\u011b! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Chcete se dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce? P\u0159idejte se na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nekomer\u010dn\u00ed \u010desko-slovensk\u00e9 f\u00f3rum o pickupu a spole\u010densk\u00e9 dynamice. Registrujte se zdarma na: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/\"><strong>https:\/\/www.socialdynamics.cz\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u0159ekladatel: Jarda Houska Jako natur\u00e1l se mu\u017e nenarod\u00ed. Natur\u00e1lov\u00e9 jsou mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed se v ur\u010dit\u00e9m momentu rozhodli b\u00fdt dob\u0159\u00ed se \u017eenami. A d\u00edky sv\u00e9mu vlastn\u00edmu odhodl\u00e1n\u00ed, zkou\u0161en\u00ed, p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ne\u00fasp\u011bch\u016f a objevov\u00e1n\u00ed toho co funguje, se vypracovali tak, \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017eou sv\u00e9st t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017edou \u017eenu. 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